￭ Bonus – Getting Laid in Latin America
Bonus – Getting Laid in Latin America
Intro
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However, it is only easier if you make necessary adjustments to your game and avoid certain mistakes. Even between my first and second trip to Colombia, i discovered several key improvements that improved my results. I wrote a nice overview in this article (which if you haven’t I recommend you read right now). In this content update, I will go one step further. I will give you a very detailed blueprint of How to Get laid in Latin America.[/text_block]
Should I go to Latin America?
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You will also have more value here (exactly how much more will vary largely based on country/city), but overall it will be more. If your SMV is 6 in New York, it Will be an 8 in Bogota. Walking down the street you will notice more IOI’s. On tinder, you will get SIGNFICANTLY more matches. Girls will open you more. Girls will chase more. Girls will suggest meeting up more. You get the picture[/text_block]
Setting up Your profile / What to Do before going to Latin America?
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The second thing you should do is optimize your tinder. The advice in the product still applies, the only thing I would do is avoid the 50 shades of grey bio, be a little bit more low key. A good shirtless picture is enough to screen out the majority of the prudes/relationship only girls. Here is the profile I used when I was in Colombia. [/text_block]
I recommend you set your tinder to your destination a few days or even a few weeks before your trip. This is called pipelining and is a great way to avoid the initial “ramp up” period when you arrive to a new destination. If you do pipeline, just follow the general advice I will describe here, move it to whatsapp, and then message the girl a day or two before your arrival and set up plans.[/text_block]
Text Game
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Opener
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Second Text
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Third Text
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-If the girl Says “Yes”, my third text is “Good, it would’ve been a bit hard to seducirte you with my gringo espanol”
-If the girls Says “No” or “A bit”, my third text is “esta bien, siempre puedo seducirte con mi gringo espanol” (This means “It’s ok, I can always seduce you with my gringo espanol”)
I like this third text a lot because it establishes a nice man to woman flirty vibe, but at the same time it’s funny/unique so the girl will almost always respond positively.[/text_block]
Subsequent Banter/Screening Texts
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1) Compliment the girls body- While this maybe a bit tacky in America, Latin Girls love compliments like this. It also will screen out the hardcore prudes. The line I always use is “tienes un cuerpo esplendido” (translated “you have a gorgeous body”). I will usually use this on the 4th or 5th text, unless the girl is asking my quesions or the conversation doesn’t call for it.
2) Question about her height – This serves two purposes for me. First, i gnerally love short girls. I am significantly less into girls who are over 5’6 and because I have a crapload of matches in Latin America, I can prioritize the ones who are more my type. However, if you don’t care about that the second purpose will still be relevant. This allows you to build value around bieng tall, because you will likely be taller then the vast majority of guys she encounters.
I will say “Cuanto Mides” (translated to “How Tall are you”)
Then when she gives me her answer, if she is under 5’5 I will say “Bueno, a mi me gustan la bajitas”. (translated to “Good, i like the short ones”). She will usually say something like, great how tall are you
If her height is like 5’5 to 5’8, I will usually just say, “Perfecto, soy 1.83” (Translated to “perfect, im 1.83). To further build it up I will usually follow it up with “Te gustan Los Altos” (Translated to “Do you like tall guys). This builds a compliance ladder, because the answer is ofcourse always yes.[/text_block]
Closing
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Aside from the added layer of comfort for the girl, there are a lot of advantages to moving things to whatsapp (faster response time, knowing if she read your message, knowing how long she thinks trying to write each message, ability to send voice memos, ability to send memes/pics, ability to send live location, the list goes on). This is why I recommend you don’t dilly dadle too long and just move things to whatsapp.
My sequence for closing is also very straightforward and simple. I just say “Cuales son tus planes para esta noce?” (Translated to “What are your plans for tonight”).
Then after her response follow it up with “Estoy tomado un poco de vino en case, ven y unete a mi ;)” (Translated to “I am having some wine at home, come join me”.
This will screen out the hard prudes for sure. However, it is not so explicit that you will trigger most girls Anti slut defense (which as previously mentioned, is a big thing here). There are really four types of response you will get to this
1) Interested that night – This one is self explanatory
2) Interested, but another night – This one is also pretty straightforward you just need to set up a date and time. (For latin America, i really don’t recomend bieng super “dominant” with logistics and saying things like “Ok, lets meet tomorrow evening at 8”. Instead, don’t be afraid to ask her what day she is free or what time she is free)
3) Interested in meeting, but in public- Treat these how you like. My first trip to colombia I still met up with them and pulled/banged about half. However, this trip by the second day I realized that I had such high volume that I could afford to just screen all of these girls out. End of the day, I only have one cock
4) Offended by the idea – Most of the hardcore prudes should have been screened out by now anyway, but there will be a minority of girls who will over react to your suggestion. My advice, is to just screen them out. You don’t want to waste your time with prudes
**Another cool trick I discovered this trip that has worked very well to solidify the wine date is to send a girl a picture of me holding a bottle of wine. It works, especially well for me because it allows me to show off my tattoo, which almost always gets compliments[/text_block]
Logistics/Concerns
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Be prepared for the ubers bieng extremely retarded. Like having them randomly cancel and whatnot. I had one night where 5 different ubers cancelled on one poor girl. Just stay calm and order another one. I also recommend offering an uber if she just asks for taxi money, because it will be overall cheaper. With addresses, i like to send a physical address and sometimes send a live location on Whatsapp for extra clarity.
Lateness: This is unfortunately the norm in Latin America. No one is ever ever on time. If you are from Miami or LA this will be totally normal for you. However, if you’re from Europe or other places where people are pretty punctual, be prepared for a culture shock. You will see in my lay report breakdown how I deal with it, but basically i stay chill and don’t act like it’s a big deal, while following up and being diligent.
Concerns/objections: There are several common concerns you will get and i will talk about how to handle them
1) Can I bring a friend? The answer in Latin America is ALWAYS no. Group dates suck here. The girls will cock block each other relentlessly. Me, blake, JMULV all did several group dates and despite us all having very solid game, we didn’t pull of a single one. Just don’t do it. The answer is always “Quiero conocerte, no tu y tu amiga” (translated to: “I want to meet you, not you and your friend”)
2) Catfish – Basically this is a girl expressing last minute concern about you being a catfish. Here “show, don’t tell” is the best philosophy. If she asks for a selfie, just send her your best one (you should have that ready ahead of time) or send her a voice memo, or call her. But basically show her you are real so that she feels at ease and comes over
3) What are we going to do? – Her anti slut defense might kick in last minute and she will ask some variation of this. Don’t try to go sexual here or anything like that, just say some variation of “Split that bottle of wine and get to know each other a bit”
4) Are you just visiting/ when do you leave? Basically, it’s all the same thing. In latin America, despite being extremely horny and sexual, the majority of girls don’t want to just have a one night stand. They want to at least have hope of seeing you more then once. I will deal with this concern in too similar ways, based on when i’m actually leaving
-If I just got there and am not leaving for another week, i will just say “Yes, im here for work. No plane ticket back yet”. This separates me from all the sex tourists and all that, but also gives me plausible deniability if i need to give her a time constraint a week from now when i am actually leaving
-If I am leaving in the next few days, I will say something like “Yes, i am flying to Miami on Wednesday. I am moving here soon for work, but need to go back for a little”
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Example 1: Shy DTF Cartagena Girl
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She says something like “how sexy”. (On google translate, “Rico” is literally translated to “rich”, but don’t let that confuse you. It really means “hot/sexy” and girls will use it very often.). Again, because this one seems like she is on the fence I decide to build it up a little more at this point and say “Not as sexy as one of my famous massages”. She responds with “Sounds good”[/text_block]
She responds positively and says something that doesn’t translate well either, but i think means something along the lines of “You still haven’t left yet?”. I respond with “Im all yours until tomorrow” She responds back with “you leave tomorrow”. I take this as a concern and write back “Yes, I am moving her soon, but need to go back to Miami for a little bit”
She responds positively and says “Ok good, what are your plans for today?”. I say “At the beach with a friend, then having some wine with you”. She responds positively again and says something like “haha sounds good”. I ask her what time she is free. She says 6pm[/text_block]
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She responds back with “I don’t know where your house is”. Again be prepared for the logistics to be a little more annoying here. I send her my address in text format. She texts me 10 minutes later saying she is on her way. I say “what time will you arrive” and she says in 15 to 20 minutes. 15 minutes go back and I ask her if se is close. She tells me she is close. I tell her to message me when she is outside. 5 more minutes go by and I ask her where she is. She says that she is lost. That she is outside but doesn’t see my place (common as well). I send her my live location again and step outside. She tells me she is lost. After a bit more and forth, i find her outside and lead her inside.
The date itself is super straightforward. Lead her straight to the bedroom, sit on my bed and pour us both a glass of wine. She doesn’t speak any english so I talk to her with the little spanish i know and google translate. Fortunately, good game and attraction is essentially universal, I hold strong eye contact, tease her a bit, and touch her arm and leg a lot. After 10 minutes or so I start escalating. Touching her more, sitting closer, stronger eye contact. Mainly its just physical escalation. Kissing her shoulder. Running my hand past her hair. All that good shit. She gets horny and after 10-15 more minutes we smash. The Only real challenge came smoothly and politely kicking her out as fast as possible afterwards because I had another girl who was scheduled to come over
If you look at the lay though. You can see the theme. Open. My usual banter. Some flirting and DHVing. Move to whatsapp. Invite her over for wine. Deal with scheduling. Answer the “Are you leaving” concern and then just deal with logistics. This one did not bring up paying for her uber/taxi so I didn’t mention it either. She was also 35-40 minutes late, which is actually quite good for latin america (no joke). [/text_block]
Example 2: Sexy Colombian Girl with Juicy Booty
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Same exact opening sequence. The only difference is that she doesn’t respond positively to my third text (very very rare) and says “maybe”. I decide to go in a different direction. It was like 2am and since she’s on tinder it could mean she’s just ready to go now. I ask her “What she is doing?” My hunch is correct. She says that she is walking home, but is bored. I still send her the wine invite (in latin america i really prefer to keep it a bit vague with the invite and minimize the chance of triggering the girls ASD)
She tells me she can go if i pay for her taxi. I agree and move things to whatsapp. Again, went in a slightly different direction after the first three texts but still only two screenshots worth of texting on Tinder. Moving things to Whatsapp pretty fast. This likely would have been a same night lay, but she takes a bit to respond to me on whatsapp and then I take an hour and she likely falls asleep.
I forget about her and then remember when I am going through whatsapp the day before leaving and send her the “this is our last chance” hail mary text that I was mass sending to everyone. It says “I am leaving for miami tomorrow, i think you are cute and would like to meet you, but if you are not interested its ok”. She responds positively and says ok lets make plans.
The rest is just mainly coordinating the logistics. First agreeing on a time and then coordinating the transportation.The only difference is that she brings up a last minute “concern” about bringing her friend, but I shut that shit down. Then it’s back to coordinating logistics. Again, she arrives basically two hours after we planned. You can see i am pretty chill, but very diligent about following up and making sure she is on the way and all is good. This is a really easy part to drop the ball just by getting lazy and taking a nap or not paying attention, but you need to be very on top of your shit here and don’t fall trap to losing the girl who was on her way over due to laziness. [/text_block]
Example 3: 100LB Sexy DTF Chick with Good English
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There is also a text missing, but I actually was the one that opened her with “Hola linda” and from there it takes off. I quickly establish that she speaks English. Because, I am treating it like a “hot lead” i skip a few steps and just go straight for the wine invite on the third message. She is interested and I immediately switch it over to whatsapp.[/text_block]
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Example 4: Crazy Sexy Pipeline Girl
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I wanted to write about this one for two reasons. First off, it is a good example of pipelining (talking with a girl before you reach their destination). Secondly, it is a also a good example of the kind of crazy you can encounter in Latin america.
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So i am really not sure what to expect from this girl, i am still worried that she might be a prostitute/tranny, but my gut tells me it’s going to be ok so i decide to roll with it. She comes over and I am actually quite impressed. She it at least 1.5 points better then her pics. She is super petite, but has a nice ass and tits. Very nice body. The face is average, but since i am all about the body idgaf.
Her english was definitely not as good as i had expected and we mostly talk in spanish. It took me about an hour to close. She had a lot of “attitude” in the beginning. I shit you not one of the first things she says to me when we walk in is that I don’t look like my pictures and asks me if i am a fag. I just got laid a few hours ago and I am not affected at all. I playfully pin her to my bed and say “yes i am a total fag” while staring right in her eyes. I break down all the sassy brat shit within the first 10-20 minutes. The rest was just lack of comfort and her anti slut defense.
At one point, i was eating her for a few minutes when she gave me a hard no and I had to stop. I’ve written about this in the past, sometimes some time of girls (typically ones who have had rape or near rape experiences) will tell you to stop right before sex, this is almost like the final test. I call it a comfort test, she really just wants to see if you will respect her wishes and if you do, she will give in literally a minute or two after. This pretty much happened here. I stopped and pulled away. Then a few minutes later she just got naked on her own, turned down the lights and we banged.
Overall, i thought the sex was pretty decent. She had a sexy body and there was a lot of repressed sexuality there. Afterwards, she started getting ready to go to sleep (self – inviting herself). Due to all the stories i have heard and this girls repeated weird behavior i made the choice not to let her sleep over for safety reasons. (I very likely would have been fine, but i didn’t want to risk it). I made up a bullshit excuse why it was not possible. She got pretty pissed. Like quite pissed. This almost never happens to me, because i always kick the girls out in a very nice and calibrated way, but this one was just super butt hurt. Here are the messages that followed after:
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Example 5: Big Booty Daygame Girl
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I wanted to also include an interaction with a girl i banged from daygame. Overall, I found daygame in Bogota to be significantly easier then America, even with my shitty spanish. Simply, I was just getting a lot more IOI’s and as you know if a girl is giving you an IOI the chance of closing increases dramatically. This one went kind of like that, me and my friend had just grabbed some fresh colombian coffee and I see this chick looking at me several times as we are walking on the street.
I open her with something random. Good body language, strong eye contact. She definitely has the “fuck me” eyes off the bat. I make a few jokes about being a narco and the son of pablo escobar. My crappy Spanish really doesn’t allow me to do too much and after a minute or two I grab her number. Our text exchange was actually quite lengthy, but I wanted to include this breakdown.
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I then just go for the meet up “Good, we should get together a bit later then”. She asks “What are we going to do”. I say “we can have a little bit of wine”. She sends me a voice memo in all spanish. Of Course because she is speaking fast i don’t understand anything and have to wait until one of my friends who speaks spanish can translate. I think it is mainly a logistical concern/objection (she tells me she lives almost an hour away). I respond back with “Our love will find a way, what is the name of your area again?”
There is a bit of confusion, but finally she understands what i am asking and gives me her general directions. I downplay the distance and respond back with “Only 30 minutes by car, I can get you an uber”
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She says essentially that she can go tomorrow. I agree and try to schedule for 5pm, but she asks if we can do earlier. I message her the next day and after opening say “See you at 3?”. She doesn’t respond so i wait an hour and double text her “Yes?”. She writes back and apologizes saying she can’t because she has a big headache. I decide to go a bit more sexual here and say that “one of my magical massages would totally cure you”
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I message her the next day and ask how she is feeling. She sends me another voice memo which i have to decipher but it basically says that she is feeling better and she asks me how i am doing. I send her a line i like to use here which basically says “I am a little sad, i haven’t seen my favorite colombian yet”. She responds positively and I follow it up with “We should change this. She says something like “yes, it’s possible”. I ask her of she is free today or tomorrow.
She responds back with two new voice memos and messages. Basically, she is lacking a bit of comfort and asks me a few questions like what i do for work and where i live. It would have been ideal if i could hit her with a voice memo back (builds much more comfort), but it is not possible with my crap Spanish so i just say “I live close to where we met. And for work I have my own marketing business”. I also send her my exact address.
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I am going to be gone by then so I tell her straight up “That won’t work, i leave for cartegena on wednesday”. She responds back with “ok we will meet on wednesday then”. I tell her that won’t be possible either because my flight is early and ask her if she has some time tomorrow. She says yes she can but it has to be in the afternoon and I agree.
The next day i send her the trusty “hola linda” text and she asks me what time my flight is tomorrow. I tell her 1pm. She says ok we will meet later today in the afternoon then and asks me what I am doing right now. Of course i have another girl on the way for earlier and so i just leave it blank and agree to the afternoon
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She says that she doesn’t have the uber app, but can take a taxi. At the moment though, i had no cash on me so I tell her that I will just order her an uber.
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She then asks me who i live with. I tell her i live with a friend, but he is going to be gone all night (in case you are wondering why i didn’t say i live along like i always do, it’s because i knew Blake was going to be banging in his room and this gave me a bit more plausible deniability if she asked in person about why some girl is getting fucked). Then she again expresses her concern saying that she is nervous because she doesn’t know me well and we are meeting at my apartment.
I respond back saying we can meet up at the coffee shop that is right next to my building first. She agrees and tells me to send the uber. However, i still have the other girl over (who i actually got massive LMR with and just decided to kick out for this one). I then message her 45 minutes later saying i just finished work asking if she is ready. Fortunately, she is still down and sends me her directions.
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Sex was quite hot. I railed her in doggy so i could watch her ass bounce and then fucked her standing up, cowgirl, missionary, pretty much every way. Then came all over her big ass. She was cool and i was hungry so afterwards we went to the grocery store, i got some steak and actually cooked for her. She chilled for a bit afterwards. She wanted to sleep over, but I had plans with another chick for later in the night so I politely kicked her out. This one though was cool and didn’t get butthurt. She still hits me up all the time to this day and I definitely plan on seeing her next time i’m back in Colombia.
OTHER RELEVANT THOUGHTS ON COLOMBIA / LATIN AMERICA
1) Public or Straight to the house – The first time i went to colombia, I met every girl except one in public and pulled about half back to my place afterwards to fuck. It is true that in latin america a chick who is legitimately dtf might just want to meet in public for safety reasons. It is obviously true everywhere, but probably more so here. However, this trip my thoughts on this evolved. Since my profile and text game have improved, I was running such high volume that by the second day (after a failed public date) i decided it is simply not necessary for me to do public dates, because there is enough girls who will still come straight over “for wine”.
Next time i go to latin america I will be doing pretty much only straight to the house as well. Maybe making an exception for a particularly hot girl. Whether you want to do straight to the house or public is your choice, but it really will come down to volume. If you are in a good city with a solid profile, it just won’t be necessary.
2). Overcoming language barrier – My spanish was essentially non existent the first time i went to colombia and I still banged numerous girls all through google translate (who i met in public). At the end of the day Attraction + Good game is more or less universal. However, it is still harder. It’s in the little things that add up. Having to translate messages on google translate, not being able to really utilize voice memos or phone calls. I also definitely noticed it with lmr. There were two girls who gave me massive lmr who i likely would have banged if i just spoke the language. I just wasn’t able to address their lmr objections/concerns as well with google translate. It’s just not the same.
In conclusion, don’t listen to the people who say you won’t get anywhere without understanding Spanish. It’s not true, I crushed it both time I went. You just need decent SMV and good game. However, Latin america can be significantly more “easy mode” if you actually do speak Spanish so I do definitely recommend trying to learn the language, especially if you plan on doing an extended trip. Personally, my goal is to become completely fluent in Spanish next time i go.
3) Prostitutes – Yes prostitution is a lot more rampant here. If you are into paying for sex, then this is great news. You can get really hot prostitutes really cheap. Personally, i am not into paying for sex. I have zero ethical qualms with it, it just doesn’t do much for me if i know i had to pay the girl. I might as well jerk off. If you are like me, you might be concerned about getting “secret hookered”.
Yes, it does happen. It happened to me my last night in cartegena. Vast majority of times the chick will making it clear she is a hooker. She doesn’t want to waste her time. She will either tell you directly or ask how much money you will give her to hang out (also direct enough). However, on rare occasions they won’t. But if they don’t it’s really not a big deal. What happened with me was I was talking to a chick on tinder, exactly like i had been with all the lay reports i shared. There were no signs. I even met her outside a club she was leaving because she was too scared to walk to my place at night (legitimate).
We go back to my place, i crack open some wine and as I start escalating she asks me how much i will give her for her to spend the night. I ask her if she is an escort and she says yes. To be honestly, i got slightly pissed. I ask her if i look like the kind of guy that needs to pay for sex. Funny enough, she says yes. I then go in my phone and start showing her pics of all the girls i banged recently. She then asks me if i will pay her for sex and i say no. She then calmly grabs her stuff and leaves. That was it. No biggie
As a side note, keep in mind there is a lot of what i call “low key prostitutes”. These are girls who are not full time prostitutes. They are either students or have normal jobs, but occasionally on the side will bang dudes for money. These are easy to bang for free with good game. If you are running good game or they are attracted they will never tell you and unless you are super aware of social dynamics/behavior you will never know. I am pretty sure that several of the girls i banged (for free obviously) were in that category. Btw, this shit is just as common in America but in a slightly different form (sugar daddies).
4) Safety – This might be a big concern for some of you. If your reason for not going to South America is because you are worried about safety, then i will tell you right now not to be a pussy. Yes, it is more dangerous here. However, if you are smart and don’t engage in high risk activities (drugs and prostitutes) you should be ok. My first trip i had zero safety issues. I caught a few people starting at my phone when I would take it out in Cali, but no one tried anything.
This time around I did have an incident in Bogota. We were staying in the very center of bogota and I thought it was cool at all hours of night and i’m sure vast majority of time it is. However, one night my buddy and I were going to the convenience store to grab some water at 3am. One of the streets we were walking on was pretty empty. Then we see two guys walking at us. Right away i can tell something is up by their body language. As they get closer one of them grabs my
Friends shirt and pulls out a giant knife. They say give us your money. I calmly take $40 out of my wallet and give it to them. They say “ok no problem” and walk away. That was it. A little scare, but no biggie.
The thing is you have to use your head down here and be smart. My buddy told me afterwards that he was contemplating punching the guy in the face until i took out my wallet. See that would have been very dumb. Maybe he gets a good shot and we get away or maybe he doesn’t and he possibly gets stabbed. That’s a dumb dumb decision. 99% of the time if you just give these guys a bit of cash they will instantly fuck off, so why risk it over $40. The point of this story is not to scare you. I actually told a few girls i banged this story and they were all surprised it happened in that area. Crazy shit can happen anywhere, but it is obviously more likely in third world countries. Just be smart and you’ll be ok.[/text_block]