Match To Orgasmic Bliss

I’ve said many times that my ability to make women orgasm so much and in such a short amount of time is 70% mental and 30% technique. A large amount of my focus and effort in making women experience orgasmic bliss begins before any clothes come off. I want to her to be truly convinced that I am a very sexual experienced man that knows what he is doing. Better than any guy she’s encountered or will.

I want her to feel she can be open and unjudged from the very start. There are ways to do this via text before meeting. I do this if it’s a girl I meet in person as well. If she feels comfortable, unjudged, eager for the experience and feels she is in the hands of a sex God, she will have the best experience and the most orgasms possible. A lot of PUAs think the simple dick-in close is enough and you’re somehow a beta if you want to please and give women an awesome experience. The experience makes them chase and gives you a great reputation within their social circles.

So I think it makes sense for me to put more work into this content update and give you some insight into my process from the match to the fuckdate. This is my process that works well for me on a typical fuckdate. I’ve banged every girl that I’ve met up with and I’ve had nearly zero LMR. If you can set up meets at your place but have issues closing or with LMR, you may want to at least implement some of these tips into your game.

Here are the parts I will touch on:

Bio & opener
Importance of demonstrating your sexual authority / confidence / experience / oral skills
Qualify her!
Gathering intel on her (preferences/experiences/kinks)
Booty massage / Allergic to coconut oil – seeding and lines
Atmosphere
Greeting her / Body language and tonality
First 15 minutes
Last 15 minutes
Massage time! Sexual escalation!
Oral sex techniques / fingering / squirting

Bio & opener

The more sexually explicit and appealing your profile is, the more likely you will be able to be more direct and open sexually with the girl from the very start. I haven’t had a nonsexual profile in a very long time. My texting has gotten increasingly more direct and sexually explicit. Why? Because women are horny pervs. The most sexual and freaky people I’ve ever known were all women. I’ve told you guys that when I walk into a room and see all the women, I automatically assume this one is wet, this one is thinking about sucking cock, this one about getting tied up, swallowing cum, etc…

I’ve noticed a lot of guys refuse to believe this. I want every guy here to automatically assume that each match they get is into some sort of freaky kink. A strong sexual desire or fantasy that she may never express to most men unless you can get it out of her.

I’ve found 2 of them that is pretty much universal: oral skills & dominance. Those happen to be two things that men these days lack according to all the women that I’ve fucked & talked to. This is why my main focus in nearly all of my interactions is about selling them on my title of the Pussy Eating Champ. My confidence, my knowledge, my directness and lack of desperation conveys qualities of a dominant man. So in this update I am going to help you become the best pussy eater you can be. I want you believe it when you confidently tell women without hesitation that you are what they need.

When you have a very sexually appealing and convincing profile, you will get more matches or less matches but more DTF women (depending on who you are). Women will open you more. You’ve got a rare skill and service to offer women. You are the prize. So don’t be a needy bitch. Start the conversation flirty or sexual.

Here are a couple of my openers that have been working very well lately:

“Swiped right for possible nice booty”

Why is this a great opener? For one, most women think they have a nice booty. And it will play well when we get to the booty massage lines, texts and the actual booty massage. You should be seeing a pattern here.

Also, I often get revealing replies from my opener that I can work with beautifully like:

“Swiped right for curiosity” — i.e. my sexual claims in my bio

“Swiped right because I’m skeptical” — She is skeptical about my claims, which means she wants it to be true and I just need to convince her. In my eyes, this is an easy lay for me already.

“You’d be correct, I’ve got a booty”

And just like that you’ve sexualized the conversation in the first sentence. And you’ve been given a great in to move closer to the booty massage and allergic to oil lines.

“Don’t play with me, a booty is one weakness….”

You’re baiting her into qualifying again, about her ass. Pretty early in the interaction she will want to take you up on your booty massage offer just to get validation from you about her ass and/or to play on your weakness.

A very high risk opener is:

“You look like you’d have a great pussy to eat out”.

I fucked the calendar model on this line. I’ve had success with this line. The only issue is you will get women totally ghosting you or really giving you shit about it. But when it works, it works well.

Importance of demonstrating your sexual experience/authority/oral skills

Your profile can provide claims that may make some women rather curious or very skeptical. But you will always need to convince them of your sexual authority or skills. This is my number 1 focus and effort with a match. I want to get it sexual, keep it sexual and I want to convince them that I am legit. I am what they are missing. And I will be an experience they will not regret. You need to sell them on this without being try hard or desperate.

If you convince a girl that you are a sex God, you will likely fuck her. If you can turn on a girl and make her wet, your chances of fucking her are very high.

Making such outrageous claims that are so unbelievable that they must be true like “Last girl I gave 30 orgasms in one night” or “I gave a girl in Vegas 21 orgasms in 35 minutes” — while these actually happened, it’s very hard to believe for most women. The details in the story and your brief, but confident explanation of how you did it will erase a lot of doubt.

Screenshots of texts from women praising you. If you are texting her, you can take a screenshot of an ex or previous lay’s conversation. This is appropriate when she says she doesn’t believe you or asks for proof or documentation.

“I mean, do you need text screenshots?”

“I mean, I could send you screenshots from girls but you’ll believe me soon enough”

Another way of demonstrating your sexual experience/skills is through sexting. I sext a lot. I write little detailed erotic stories where they picture themselves in it. If written properly with detail, you can be seen as a guy that has done this before. I’ve had girls say things like “Looks like you know what you’re doing” confirming it’s working. It also makes them horny which naturally makes getting the fuckdate far easier.

A lot of guys try to force this and it doesn’t come off genuine. You can be confident while being nonchalant about it. Don’t chase to seek her validation, but be opportunist. You can use subtle baiting to get you to the appropriate period to demonstrate your sexual experience.

Qualify Her

I call it more baiting. It’s a more subtle way of getting her to qualify or give up information that she wouldn’t have otherwise given had you just asked. I’ve done this the entire interaction to get a meet or i’ve done it to get her to admit to sexual things. Or to open more about sex. Or even to make her qualify so hard that she is the one chasing. The typical qualify like “you seem cute and cool, but are you adventurous?” doesn’t translate over text as well as it does in a club. You’ve got to be more subtle, but have a more specific direction or piece of information you’re trying to get.

I will do this with oral for example. I have more lines and steps to use regarding to oral that will eventually lead me to the fuckdate. If you bait, have a specific direction and dialogue in mind beforehand. So if oral comes up, I can say “I mean, if you’re into multiple oral orgasms” or “Ah, multiple oral orgasms isn’t for everyone” or:

“idk i’m not sure I should tell you my 3rd talent/passion yet”

“tell me”

”fine. I’m very skilled at oral and multiple orgasms. But i’d totally understand if you’re not into that”

“I love oral hehe”

“Look, if you’re too nervous I’d totally understand…”

“haha i’m far from nervous”

“Sarah, there’s seriously nothing wrong with that. A lot of girls get cold feet”

“You don’t know me then. I’m blah blah blah”

“What’s the most oral orgasms you normally get?

“Only like 2-3”

“That’s it? Sorry”

“Yeah guys are really lazy or bad”

“I don’t get it. I love it. Last girl I gave 30 orgasms to in one night”

“That’s impossible! Wtf! I’d love that many…”

“Since you’re new to this, I’ll start you off with 10-12 orgasms. I don’t want to kill you”

“No way you can do that! I don’t believe it”

“I’m not concerned”

“You’re very confident”

“Confidence comes from results”

“Well we’ll have to do it sometime”

She’s beginning to chase. I can ignore that offer and go into booty massages or get her to qualify her ass or tits. Maybe bait her into sending a few pics. Maybe sext a bit until she is more aggressive in trying to meet or just more down. You can do this all the way up until the fuckdate as long as it is very subtle baiting.

Don’t over do typical qualifying. Mastering the subtle baiting has gotten me lays from women that had no intention of meeting any man but was compelled to to get that validation.

One of the greatest lines is “You look like you’d have a nice booty”.

Followed up after her response: “don’t lie to me girl, a nice booty is my WEAKNESS”. I’ve gotten a ridiculous amounts of booty pics that turned into sexting. It’s also a fantastic way to get a booty massage meet (which naturally always ends up with sex within 15 minutes).

Gathering Intel

This isn’t totally needed, but can help sometimes get the meet and during sex. Is she very submissive? Is she into any particular fetishes? Can she only orgasm through penetration or clitoral stimulation? Does she love creampies and public sex? Any kind of intel you can gather like this has helped me numerous times. I know the most popular one is about submission/BDSM.

But if you open her up to talk about sex and there is a flow, you can use that window to get some intel that will help you when you sext her (in the erotic story you may use details that she earlier expressed that really turns her on) or when you meet up for sex.

One example: I’ve been fucking a couchsurfer as I write this. Before I ever escalated, I opened her up to talk about sex. Just a casual, nonjudgmental discussion. She expressed how she likes men to treat her before and during sex. She thinks oral is very boring and can ruin the mood. No teasing. Loves her nipples sucked. Grab her, take her to the room, bend her over and fuck her, etc. When I went in for the kill, I used the details she gave me earlier. Easy close. I used this and other info she gave me to hook her up with a group member I had just met within minutes.

This isn’t something you need to focus on, but could be very useful to do when given that opportunity.

*It’s incredibly important to always in text & in person to be very nonjudgmental. When finally opening up a girl to talk about sex, try to avoid a lot of humor. I’ve seen a lot of guys shoot themselves in the foot and completely lose matches because they thought teasing or negging girls that finally open up sexually would somehow be effective. It’s not. Or they start off in such a way that the girls would never open up to them. I am incredibly good at making women feel comfortable and unjudged when it comes to sex. It’s been one of the biggest reasons why I don’t get LMR.

Don’t slut shame. Do the very opposite. You can’t fuck her like a slut when you just meet her if you’re going to shame that behavior.

Booty Massage / Allergic to Coconut Oil

Everyone’s seen these lines a ton in my text game. So I’ll briefly explain. I talked about baiting girls into qualifying their asses. Maybe sending booty pics. Expressing how a nice booty would just make me weak. It gives them incentive. They want to show off their nice ass. They want to make you weak. They want validation.

So I learned that I can just transition using that theme to get the meet. The booty massage meet. I’ve had strictly meets for booty massages that always resulted in sex. However often you can’t keep that theme going and frame the meet as a booty massage date.

So one trick I use is to ask them if they’re allergic to coconut oil. “Are you allergic to coconut oil?” It’s a weird ass random question that grabs their attention.

“No lol why?”

“It’s what I use for my relaxing booty massages.”

You can end it there or that can flow into a booty massage date. But I do not force it. If I get the meet, I can prepare her for what is going to happen when she arrives.

Let’s say we set the meet at my place at 10:00 pm. She says she is leaving in a second. I’ll ask her if she has any coconut oil before she goes. If she says yes and takes it, she just agreed to a booty massage. A subtle mind trick. Now if she says no, it doesn’t matter. While she is on her way I may send a “okay I found it! When you come in I’m going to give you a relaxing booty massage while we get to know each other”. She has a car ride to prepare. When she comes in I do exactly as I said. It’s set up and assumed without any question or hesitation. She follows.

Atmosphere For Fuckdate

I added this because there are a ton of questions about guy’s place or setup. Music? Wine? Candles? Fucking decor. I’ve fucked a lot of women in my parent’s cold dark basement on a single mattress on the floor. I’ve pulled there and I’ve brought girls there from Tinder. So if you’re stressing over this shit, go meditate.

I always turn the lights off in all rooms except for my bedroom where I have Family Guy or Rick & Morty playing. I lead. They follow me to the light. Slightly creepy? Possibly. But Family Guy helps when entering the room. And my cat. This is a way to skip the living room couch chat and go straight to my bed. I only offer ice water. My original thinking was that I didn’t want them to think I was getting them drunk. I want them to be sober. I’ve dealt with plenty of drunk girls and I don’t have the patience for that anymore. It also makes it easier for them to read my body language and me theirs. But I’d say most of you should go with a glass of wine or two.

I always have the coconut oil by the bed. Maybe a prop as well (a guitar for example would work, my retarded ass childlike artwork that women laugh at or try not).

All women seem to naturally have anxiety and this is a situation where it may be amped up. Having a dirty place full of clutter will not help.

Greeting Her/Body Language & Tonality

I will write up content based around body language and tonality in the future so I will not get too in-depth here. But body language and tonality is something I’ve been working on for years and is absolutely important. You might’ve noticed a lot of my game is based around subtle things that I trust will work on their subconscious minds.

When I greet my fuckdate, I make sure that I come out to greet her at her car when she parks. For one, she doesn’t have to take that possible nervous walk to my door. And I want to lead her directly to my room. So I greet outside by her car. A smile and hug. A few seconds of light banter and I lead. I don’t wait for permission. I lead her to my place and I don’t look back or wait for her to catch up. I want her to see that I am leading and not looking for permission. And I want her to get in the mindset of following. I come in and continue to my bedroom. I don’t wait. I go in and take my shoes off. I may grab my cat or ask if she likes Family Guy to get her over the possible sketchy dark walk to a stranger’s bedroom. I tell them I am so relieved. They ask why and I say because they look great in pics, but much better in person.

I want to build as much comfort as possible in the shortest amount of time while building some tension. My body language is confident but at ease. My tonality is composed and to the point. Non aggressive, non hesitant and simply composed. I let them talk about whatever, which is usually themselves. I make strong eye contact, nod my head with empathy. I’m in no rush. I have nothing to say. I want to be a mystery. I’m just an empathetic listener.

A few body language tips:

Touch: You don’t want to be touchy. But light touching when you first greet is proven to establish connection. This is best when you first meet because it’s non sexual and accepted. I’ll greet with a hello and smile and a hug. I’m a bigger guy with broad shoulders and chest, so I use that to my advantage. I don’t bear hug her. I do sort of a short side hug, but I put my broad chest into her (almost if I am squaring her up) while making a light-hearted comment like “aw you’re so cute” and pull back. It’s confident and she feels my masculinity. But I pull away. The light-hearted comment helps ease any feeling of a threat. If you go in for subtle touches, don’t focus your eyes on your touch, but with strong eye contact.

Smile: I don’t do a lot of teeth-showing smiles. I do more smiling with my facial expressions. I narrow my eyes a bit as if I am focusing on something and grin with one side of my face. It’s sexy and subtle. Friendly, but you’re not coming off as a clown. I’ve had so many women tell me how they love when I do this. I’ve mastered this so practice a bit so you don’t look like you’re trying to take a shit in your pants. It’s subtle and not forced.

Eye Contact: Fucking crucial. A lot of women are very good at maintaining eye contact. It’s one way to check if you are a real man, confident or even a liar. Maintaining strong eye contact is very important. But make sure you aren’t all up in their face doing it. You’ll come off creepy. You should be composed while making strong eye contact. Strong eye contact, non-reactive if she is giving you a shit test. I fucked a married woman once and she said it was because she tests men by staring them down and trying to intimidate them and I was completely unfazed.

Take Up Space And Don’t Excessively Touch Yourself: A lot of guys will cross their arms, put their legs together, fidget with their fingers and try to look small. Women notice this. It makes you look like a pussy. It also makes them a bit nervous. Keep your head up. Chest and shoulders up. And don’t be afraid to take up some space. She wants an alpha with confidence. Not a scared beta.

Tonality: This one will be relevant for a lot of you. Take deep breaths in and slow down your speech. Your tonality will have a major effect on building comfort and tension very, very quickly. If your tonality expresses calm, composure and empathy, she will feel very at ease. Very quickly. Also, no woman is turned on by squeaky, nervous, high-pitched tone from a man. I’ve weirdly had multiple women tell me I should narrate certain books because they feel so at ease when I talk to them. My aim is comfort, empathy and sexual tension with my tonality. Don’t get too creepy trying to replicate because I spent a very long time a mastering this.

Sitting: This one is very relevant here. When I bring girls directly into my room and I sit on my bed, I sit in the center of the bed. Sometimes Indian style or even laying on my side totally relaxed. Sitting on the edge of the bed or couch will subconsciously communicate to her that you are nervous, unsure or on the edge.

Blinking & Looking Down: Rapid blinking and looking down is a sign of nervousness and discomfort. Sign of anxiety. These women are naturally full of anxiety, especially in this situation. She will get what you’re giving and it will create the wrong kind of tension. Controlling your breathing will help with blinking. I used to look down a lot when I had bad anxiety, I got over it by looking straight ahead, past their head and squinting my eyes as if I was thinking/listening.

The first 15 minutes

I’ve greeted her and led her to my room. I usually chill on the center of the bed (as I stated before) and make a couple jokes. I don’t run my mouth. I want to focus on my tonality when I do speak and my body language. My goal is to get her talking the first 5-15 mins on my bed. I don’t talk about myself. Many times I don’t even say a word. I listen and make strong eye contact. Empathy. I don’t touch her. I don’t make any moves. The first 15 I have no plan to make a move. I may compliment her booty at one point, some subtle sexual innuendos. I’ve created her perception of me before we met. I’ve either made her very horny or very eager for the experience beforehand. So I know I don’t have to game her. I don’t have to do much. I want her to talk and I don’t want to do or say anything to alter that pre-made image. And I want to add some mystery. Very often they will ask something about me or what I do for work and I will tell them I don’t like talking about myself and smile. If they push, I say I’ll tell you when I get to know you more. First 15 I want to build comfort in my room and on my bed while building some tension (through body language/tonality and mystery).

The Last 15 minutes

After 15 minutes I will really focus on her body language. I want to make sure she is comfortable enough to go in for the escalation. I do not want LMR. I can tell throughout the interaction if I am going to get some LMR. So instead of going for it and dealing with the objections, I just buy more time and try to build more comfort or sexual tension (a lot of guys will go for a kiss knowing very well they aren’t comfortable with any escalation yet. Ruining their chances).

Some women will get impatient after 10 minutes and ask when am I going to fuck them. I tend to go through the process even if I think she’s ready.

I typically have topics prepared that I think will help build comfort with specific girls based on their profile or topics we talked about. So it doesn’t hurt to do a little research. If she has vacation pics, favorite bands, etc.

The first 15 minutes I have a bit of distance from her. She can come to me or keep that distance. I don’t want to come off as aggressive (this will work with a lot of women or depending on the interaction beforehand, but I’ve noticed starting out non-physical/aggressive & more subtle is far more effective). In the last 15 I will slowly move in closer every minute. Almost as if I am trying to catch my cat that ran outside. When I get close enough to her, I pet her before I grab her. It’s like the booty massage before the plowing.

When I think she is ready, I will bring up a casual sexual topic. Typically about her ass or about her experience with oral/orgasms. If she reacts well, I will grab the coconut oil and tell her it’s organic. Pat the bed and tell her to lay down. I’m going to give her a massage.

Massage Time / Sexual Escalation

I won’t bother with her clothes. I will massage her back and work my way around it. If she is talking, I ignore it. I focus on the massage. I want to have silence. So I will also turn off my TV.

Now sometimes girls just get completely naked. I give her a real massage before I move up to her shoulders and neck. The neck and shoulder has some sensitive areas that’ll turn on women. I’ve known women that had one point on their shoulder that if I put pressure on they immediately get wet. So I massage the shoulder gently and slowly go up to her neck and back down. Sometimes you can tell if you hit a spot. Hit it and move away. It’s a bit of a tease. If she’s been receptive thus far you can move her shirt up and if she doesn’t object, you can take it all the way off and undo her bra. Sometimes I will massage the back of her head with my finger tips and ask if she likes her hair played with. I will gently get a grip of her hair as if I was going to pull her hair from behind. Just gently, but giving her that thought.

At this point the massage becomes slower and more sensual. Especially as I move lower and lower to her ass and thighs where I will massage and slowly slide down her pants. My trick is to latch on to her panty line at the same time so that her panties come off too.

Now I might’ve been able to fuck her the minute she walked into the door, but I want to go through this process and seduce her. Tease her. Build up some tension and anticipation. I want her soaked. I want her to want it so bad. She may even beg for it. But I continue on with my process anyway.

She’s completely naked. If you do have lights on, turn them off. Slowly massage her entire body from her sensitive neck/shoulder area down to her calves.

I’ll massage her booty while spreading her ass and pussy. I get a very good response from that. A slight gasp. Then I go down to her thighs and massage in between slowly up but stopping a few inches from her pussy. Just teasing her.

I’ll gently push her right leg out to see if she’ll spread. If so, I will begin working my way up her thighs up to her pussy where my knuckle will brush up against her pussy. I will do this multiple times and then go back to her back for a minute.

At this point she is wet and really needs it. So I will massage in between her leg with a bit more vigor so that she gets a slight stimulation on her pussy. Then I will straight up rub her clit for a minute and flip her on her back and get in between her thighs to eat her pussy.

Oral sex

Congrats, you’re eating pussy (unless you’re Tommy or have a scraped knee). I had planned to use a girl to demonstrate the techniques, but I had two get cold feet. So I will have to write this out and do a Live and get a brave chick to use in the future. So think of this just as part 1.

Some of you guys already know techniques and may do pretty well. But aren’t giving women as many orgasms as I am. Which means you should focus on putting her in the right mental state (and yourself) leading up to it. The build up (and being relaxed/eager) is essential in giving her multiple orgasms.

The Appetizer:

I will slowly & gently tease her entire pussy with the tip of my tongue for a couple minutes. Suck on it gently. Let her feel your breath on her pussy. I’ll tell her that she has a nice pussy. Maybe that it tastes great. Some girls may be a bit self conscious about their pussy for whatever reason and that simple compliment may put them at ease so she can really get into it. Showing some enthusiasm will help as many men don’t enjoy it and express it through their body language. Which makes it less of a pleasurable experience for her.

Then I’ll open my mouth wide, stick my tongue out and pointed down and bury my face in her pussy. I feel like I am attacking and trying to eat her entire pussy. I’ll do that at the same time I grab her tit. Usually they let out a gasp and lift up their pussy.

The Snake:

There are multiple techniques that I’ll go through to find the one that she responds best to. But the first one I try is usually the most effective. My ex always called it “The Snake”. Her legs are spread wide, both knees up. My arms are inside her thighs rather than wrapped around her legs. I’ve got the index and middle finger gently pulling the skin up to expose the clit while my thumbs are on both sides stretched out so that they are just outside of her hole. Almost teasing it. Slight pressure. Almost as if you’re about to insert them.

My tongue sticking out, but my mouth shut. My tongue is a bit stiff. I’ll start off slow and put medium amount of pressure on the clit. Licking range is just under the clit and right above. Not directly at one point. I lick up (the top part of the tongue touching clit) and lick down (with the underneath part of the tongue touching clit). It’s only a very slight clit flick. I’ll gradually increase speed from slow to as fast as possible depending depending on her body language. This could be over a period of a minute or even several minutes. Once I’m going full speed, I’m not moving my head and my hands are holding her pelvic area down. Some girls move a lot so I have to hold those down a bit more than others. It’s important to keep salivating to keep the clit wet. If this technique doesn’t work after a few minutes or even if she orgasms once or twice, you can switch positions and try something new. However if she’s orgasming a lot and the time in between each orgasm shortens, stick with it. You’re on your way.

One-Two Punch:

Lay her right leg flat down. Get on top of her leg (her leg is between your legs; your balls will be dangling on her leg). Move her to her side facing left. Left leg lifted up (being held by your left hand; knees are nearly up to her chest). So you should be able to lick her clit while fingering her.

You’ll want to hit the G-spot while steadily licking her clit. Insert 2 fingers (palms up) pressing your fingertips against the middle of the upper vaginal wall. It’s got a sponge-like feel to it. This area should swell up if she’s very turned on (which at this point she should be if you’ve built her up). Make a firm hook out of your fingers and locate the G-spot with your finger tips. Caress and massage the area and find the most swollen area. Sometimes it’ll be harder to find and sometimes it’ll be incredibly obvious. The motion should be done with your arm and not with your fingers. Moving your arm so that your firm fingertips are tapping that spot (but not digging into it with force). Make sure you have a steady licking rhythm (you can use the snake licking or a more flat-tongued circle motion; depending on her preference) and then find the same consistent fingering rhythm. Start off slowly tapping and increase speed as long as you’re reading her body and she is into it the speed and pressure. She should be screaming (or even having a sensation of pissing). Make sure you hold her down so she can’t squirm away. If she’s drenched and swollen, you can increase speed and power. You can also pull away and rub her clit in a circle motion while stimulating her G-spot harder and faster. If she is very turned on, her pussy should be able to handle a good amount of force. Some girls may prefer her nipples played with while getting fingered. So test that out.

If she keeps saying she has to pee, assure her that it’s normal and to just relax.

You’ll usually know she’s very close to cumming when you feel a crazy tight pressure around your fingers. It’ll be harder to finger her and it may wear you out. Increase speed and suck it up. She’s likely on her way to cumming or even squirting. If she likes choking, put your hand firmly around her neck, hold her down while hitting the g-spot. This will make a lot of women go crazy.

There are a few different pressures I may try on the g-spot: stroking the spot back and forth, tapping or pushing the button and a circular massaging motion.

Face Down, Ass Up:

One of the positions women tell me is the hottest is bending them over doggystyle at the edge of the bed. Her ass up, face down. Legs spread out. One hand hitting the G-spot and the other playing with her nipples while licking her clit in a circular motion. It could take a second to get used to as it’s a bit of an awkward and tough position. You can palm her ass and give it a shake beforehand. The vibration will make her pussy tingle. You can also grab her hair and surprise her with your cock from behind right after. I like to tease them with my dick. Rub it on the clit and pretend like I’m going to slide it in. Most girls yell at me for it. Fake her out and go back to muching for a bit.

The Animal:

I’ve given some women their first or most explosive orgasms by sliding my tongue in their pussy with my nose rubbing the clit. Then lifting their legs and knees close to their chest and closing their legs. A lot of men won’t do this and it will surprise her and make her very turned on. Move your head side to side in a quick animalistic fashion while making a slight noise. Move your tongue in and out as if it was your dick. A bit challenging, but works wonders for a lot of women. The vibration will make her go crazy.

The Mouthful:

This can be an awesome one because it stimulates much of the pussy. Pull the hood away exposing the clit with a finger. Once exposed, open your mouth wide so that you have the pussy in your mouth. The clit will be in the middle. Flick the clit directly with the tip of your tongue. You’ll have to salivate a lot. Watch your teeth.

You can also stimulate the g-spot while doing this. If she has a sensitive clit, you can use the flat of your tongue and make a circular motion and massage the entire clit area. No flicking.

The Pussy Above:

You’re laying on your back and she is on her knees over your face. Not sitting on your face, but the pussy is just above your mouth. I like to tease her body with my fingertips and tease her pussy with my lips first. She may not be able to take it and just ride your face. Then I’ll palm both her tits so you’re lifting her up a bit or giving her something to lean on. I like to suck, lick all parts of her pussy. Use any motions and pressures. You can even slide a finger in her from behind while the other is on her chest. This one often ends up with her finding a spot and just riding that spot. Keep your tongue out and whatever position and let her go at it. Play with her nipples and ass while she does it. You can also do this where your head is dangling off the bed and she is standing, knees bent over your face. But I found this position to be a bit too exhausting.

Bent Over, Legs Crossed:

I don’t have any detailed technique for this one. I’ve had multiple women tell me “it was so hot when you bent me over, spread my ass and went in”. Grab your girl, force her over the edge of the bed, cross her legs and palm both ass cheeks hard and spread them very side. Go in and tease her hole with your tongue and back down to her clit. You can improvise a bit with this one because I’ve rarely made a girl cum from this one, but they love the whole interaction. Spank her ass hard and go back in. Grab her ass and go in like an animal.

I’m going to give you a couple sex positions to use after giving her great oral. Because these are the ones that I’ve noticed women absolutely love, beg for or cum a lot to.

The first one a ton of women say no guy has done and they beg for it. It’s a bit tiring. Lay on your back, get her on top as if she is riding you. She’s sitting on your cock. Put her arms behind her back as if she is getting handcuffed (use handcuffs if you have). Now pull her in to you as if you are going to kiss her while she is riding. But you’re going to bear hug her. Lock your arms together (one hand gripping the other wrist tight) and hold her down to your neck. Then put your feet on the bed, knees up (in the missionary like position). Her pussy/ass should be lifted up so only the tip of your cock is in her now. You’ll have some of her weight off you and some space to work with. Now the thrust in and out. But with full force and while tightly bear hugging her. She will fucking love this. I’ve had every girl beg for me of this, but it’s so tiring.

The second one she is standing by the edge of the bed, her right leg lifted up on the edge of the bed (left is still standing on the floor). Grab her right arm and put it behind her back and hold it there. Using your right hand palm her ass and spread her ass/pussy up and wide. Her pussy should be more open. You’re going to thrust upward with your hips and with medium speed and force. It’ll get deep and hit the spot.

Here are some other tips:

STFU! Beside the occasional “your pussy tastes amazing”, don’t talk or complain
Don’t stop while you’re building up that momentum
I drink tons of water before a fuckdate to make sure I don’t get dry mouth
Take some maca beforehand
It’s important to calm yourself and control your breathing so that you have more stamina (sounds stupid, but slowly counting in your head works)
When moving her or changing positions, just do it. Don’t be afraid to manhandle her in whatever position you need her in. BUT have some consistency. Don’t be constantly switching it up. Spend a lot of time in whatever position you put her in
Don’t get ahead of yourself. She’ll want your cock soon enough. Focus on her so you can pound the fuck out of her and put her to sleep.
Eat her out midfuck
Your tongue can be used in different ways. She may respond better to one of them. Straight and firm, gentle, flat and wide or very pinpointed. She may prefer a circle motion or side to side, though most prefer the up and down. If she has a very sensitive clit, you’ll have to expand your range of licking and avoid direct stimulation of the clit. Sometimes I’ve had to instead of spreading the pussy to expose the clit, push the skin over it so it looks like a sandwich. That should give enough of a barrier so it’s not ultra sensitive and painful
Your neck and tongue may hurt like a bitch. Give it a rest by moving your head up and down like a dog would and keep that stimulation on the clit until you can get back to it. You can also rest your head on her thigh and lick from the side. I typically do this and it gives her a slightly different angle that may be enjoyable but keeps the momentum going
Grab and hold on to her wrist while eating her out. She may struggle a bit, but secure her wrists so she can’t move. A lot of women love this move. The feeling of being dominated and almost forced to take it
She may need a break after one orgasm or 20. She may push you off. It’s far shorter than men, so tease her body, keep up tension until you go back in
If you’ve tried everything and she is not responding as well as you hoped, confidently ask her what feels the best. I avoid asking questions unless absolutely nothing is doing it for her. It’s better to ask and get her off, then to give up
If you’ve found a position, a motion, speed and pressure that is making her cum multiple times, then keep at it. Stay consistent and keep going until she cannot orgasm anymore. I may do a few techniques, she may orgasm in each position, but usually I find that one exact thing that gives her a rapid fire line of orgasms
Be very attentive to her body language and sounds. You may find the perfect spot or combo and changing anything even in pressure or a couple centimeters away may ruin it
Women on average take about 20 minutes to reach an orgasm. So don’t pussy out. Follow her body and once she’s reached that first orgasm, it will be much easier from there on
If she starts moving her pussy around your tongue, she’s likely found or is finding that spot. Just leave your tongue out and let her. Once she settles on a spot with your tongue, go at it
If you’re lost (or unsure) you can tell her it’s hot to watch her play with herself while you tease her body. You can observe the speed, motion and all of how she is touching herself and use that to your advantage when you go back in
When she’s dead. Or in need of a break. Inserting the tip of your fingers just a bit and barely moving it will make her ready again faster
Don’t make drooling and loud licking sounds. It’s usually very distracting and a turn off. Minimize the noise. Some may like it, but most won’t
Buy a Magic Wand. Some girls can only handle so little oral/orgasms, but some will wear you the fuck out. Pull the Wand out, slowly fuck her in missionary while she is using the Wand on her pussy