Best Tinder Pick Up Lines

What are the best tinder pick up lines

Everyone wants a perfect Tinder pickup line that will get every girl to respond to your first message and become interested. I’m here to tell you, despite what some “gurus” or Reddit may say: that doesn’t exist. There is no magic bullet dating app pickup line. But there are some important principles that I’ll share in this article, which will help you come up with creative & witty lines that will make you stand out and build attraction.

Rules for a good Tinder pickup line

1. A good pickup line does not seem like a pickup line – This may sound a bit counterintuitive, but it’s the way it is. If the girl can look at your message and think “I wonder where he got that pickup line from,” then it wasn’t good. The biggest thing is that whatever pickup line you do come up with should not seem like something that was copy & pasted and mass sent out to a bunch of girls.
2. Short & Succinct. A good pickup line doesn’t need to be more the one sentence. You don’t want to be sending out paragraphs, as the girl will be unlikely to read it, and even if she does, the frame set isn’t going to be a favorable one.
3. Original. The last rule is that whatever pickup line you use should be at least somewhat custom tailored to the girl. Especially to her pics. And, you don’t want to be making the obvious comment every guy is making. There is no need to go crazy here, just imagine what every average dude is likely to say, and don’t do that.

Examples of good Tinder pickup lines

1. Comment on something she wears

This chick clearly has a very nice booty, but that means most guys are commenting on that. You can expect her to get a lot of messages like “Dat Ass tho” so we want to avoid that. You see that in one of her pics she is wearing these nerdy glasses, and that presents an interesting opportunity.

We can say “I like your sexy nerd glasses”. That’s short and to the point, doesn’t feel like a pickup line, and is somewhat original. I sent her this pickup line in real life and here is how that convo played out

2. Gently tease her for posing in her Tinder pictures

 

In her pics, she looks like she is always posing for the camera. This means for our pick up line we can comment on that in a playful way. To accomplish this we can say “I like your majestic poses 👌”

Most likely she doesn’t hear that often. And here you can see again how the convo played out with this pickup line

3. Playfully tease her for having lots of selfies

Aside from her cuteness, one of the first things I noticed about this chick is that half her pictures are selfies. This definitely presents us an opportunity to playfully tease her. The key though is not to come off insulting or mean. “I like your selfie collection 😏” accomplishes that.

It acts a sort of backhanded compliment. Adding the emoji at the end is important to signal that you’re just teasing rather than trying to be a dick. Here is how that convo played out:

4. Playfully call her out for a boring profile (In a Non-Douchey Way)

 

This chick has the most bland profile ever. Just a booty pic and no bio. It’s clear that she is on Tinder just to hook up. In my opener I want to probably tease her a bit and then after a message or two “get down to business.”

I’m sure you’re starting to notice a patter that some of the best tinder pick up lines involve playfully teasing the girl. Below you can see how this pickup line played out

 

5) comment on her looks or facial expressions

 

In this example the girl had a picture where she was staring at the camera in a very dramatic way. This presents an easy opportunity to playfully tease her about it, while at the same time suggesting a meet up. This allows you to plant the seed very early on that you’re not on her just to be her text buddy and you guys will be going on a date.

6. Joke about something unique or unusual in one of her pictures.

This chick has a picture of her with an alpaca, which makes it very easy to comment on that. Of course you don’t want to be like “I love your alpaca” because that would be too plain/boring. Instead in this example we comment on the hat to be more unique by saying “who wore it better”

Another option here would be to just say “Do you come with the alpaca”. This would be a funny variation

 

Overall, Tinder pickup lines are not that hard to come up with if you follow the principles I mentioned. The good news for you is that the majority of guys have absolutely no idea what they’re doing and are sending very cheesy lines. That means that by following this guide you’re already gonna be way ahead of most of your competition. If you want a deeper dive into all the other elements of Tinder, check out this guide on how to build the best Tinder profile

Or check out this video for much more examples of great Tinder pick up lines