How To Text A Girl Who Keeps Ghosting
In this guide we are going to show you how text a girl who is very low investment, keeps ghosting, and won’t give her number out. This conversation is from one of our mastermind members who did an amazing job and was ultimately able to get the date. Learn how he did it below.
In case you’re curious, this is the girl. Definitely a hot Latina. One of those girls you see and think “damn I want her”. The problem with the hot dtf girls though is that they tend to be quite flaky, because they have a million options. Now let’s see how he handles this.
He opens her with a compliment about her fitness. This is ok, but a better way to phrase that might have been “swiped right for gym gains”.
We can’t see a few of the texts, but the part we can observe is that she quickly tries to get him to add her on IG. This doesn’t necessarily mean she’s just there for followers. It is also entirely possible that she doesn’t use the app much and/or wants to see more photos of him
In the next screenshot he tries to move things over to text. He does the right thing, by pushing for the number. Interestingly enough, she refuses and insists on using IG. The majority of the time a girl who won’t give her number out is a time waster, but not always. There are exceptions like this as we will see. That being said it also helps if you have a solid IG profile.
The conversation continues on Instagram. His texting is very lighthearted and flirty here. He playfully challenges her to get more investment about the meetup. This is crucial, because it minimizes the chances of ghosting/flaking.
She playfully sends him a photo of herself in a doggy position. He plays along, but she falls asleep so the conversation restarts
Here is some more flirting. He does a good job of keeping the vibe fun and moving things forward. However, after he asks when she’s free, she ignores his question and just randomly comments on one of his stories a day later. This kinda erratic behavior is quite common with low investment girls
He plays along a little bit but then does a good job of bringing things back to setting up the date. Once you get to the part of the interaction where you’re coordinating logistics (as is the case here), you don’t want to get sidetracked. Keep the focus on the logistics until everything is set up
They make very tentative plans for Friday and she says she’s gonna confirm tomorrow. However, she doesn’t actually follow up. Most likely what happened is she decided to do something else and was too lazy to let him know. He waits a week and then sends her one of the infamous PWF takeaways
“If you’re too nervous, id understand”
It doesn’t work this time so he waits another 4 days and sends her a classic takeaway meme. Sometimes, you have to be persistent like this. Especially with the hotter girls. She finally responds and agrees to the date one more time, but then completely drops off again. He sends her another takeaway meme, but this time she is in full on ghost mode
As a last ditch effort, he tries to call her out of the blue. And impressively, she calls him right back. This would not work in most situations, but at this point he had nothing to lose so it was time to take a risk. I’ll let him explain in his own words what happened on the phone call:
“We start to chat & she tells me how she does not check her IG DM’s because she works two jobs and gets busy. & That she wants to just become a stripper because she has the body for it. She then tells me that she has the day of the next day.
My phone call game I would say was pretty on point. I was somehow able to talk my way into splitting a bottle of wine that she likes at her hotel where she’s staying, since she’s a travel nurse. She initially wanted to do the next day & even wanted to go out first, but I stood firm on shooting for that night as I thought it would be possible. She then agrees, and tells me the name of the hotel she is staying at. I go to CVS, pick up a bottle, and head out”
Here is just primarily logistics. He does the smart thing by going straight up to her room and bam they hook up. Overall, the lesson here is that you gotta be persistent in this day and age. Hot girls especially will randomly drop off as we saw here. The trick is to not to give up or get needy, but to stay calm and persistent
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