How To Smoothly Ask A Girl Out Over Text

In this article we’re gonna show you how to smoothly text a girl and get a date. This real life example comes from one of our mastermind members and will demonstrate almost perfect text game.

This will teach you banter, sexualization, and how to sleep with a girl five inches taller than you!

He uses a curiosity opener which are very effective at getting a girl to respond. The real challenge is in what to say next. Some guys get stuck but he handles it pretty well. By his third message he begins to set the dom/sub frame by getting her to say please and then rewarding her with “good girl :)”. This is a good way to begin building compliance.

He asks her what she’s looking for and she gives a very standard PC answer. He moves past it and tries to go for the same night meetup. Personally i probably would have teased her by saying “that’s a very PC answer ;)”

She kinda gives him a half assed answer and he calls her on it. Notice how much more enthusiastic she immediately becomes. A lot of girls love it when a guy isn’t afraid to playfully give them shit back, since most men are too scared to do it. The immediate difference pre and post “call out” is substantial.

The conversation has moved to text which is good. If you’re going for the same night lay you want to get her off the dating app like this.

The convo afterwards is just playful banter. Even if you’re gonna go super sexual it’s important to balance it out with some vibing, otherwise there’s a much higher chance the girl will get cold feet.

You can tell this chick is very clearly submissive (like most women). You want to capitalize on that and show her that you’re a dominant man. Keep reading to see how that eventually pays off for him.

After a few “dominant texts” he brings it back to logistics to try to make this thing happen. A lot of guys will mess this up and just get way to stuck on sexting or bantering with a girl but you always have to keep in mind moving things forward is the primary goal.

After some more logistics he basically tries to gauge whether she will be down to have sex in public. This is a risky move and i would personally save this for once i’ve met up with the girl or ideally after sex.

Fortunately, she is still on board he keeps going with the dom/sub frame telling her that he will reward her for obedience and she loves it. This type of text game will make the date very easy, since the girl is already getting turned on by taking orders.

Here we learn that she is four inches taller than him. However it’s not a deal breaker because he has already set up a confident dom frame. Things could be very different if his texting was subpar

Here’s the lesson for shorter guys or just guys who prefer really tall girls. Sometimes it’s not about the fact that you’re shorter than her and more about that she wants to feel like the feminine one in your arms. That is why it is even more important to come off as masculine & dominant. She reinforces this point with her “you seem like you know how to handle me” text

Here the convo becomes very sexual. He has basically baited her into asking her about his kinks. His type of response will appeal to most girls. The only thing that i would personally add is “orgasm denial”. Girls love that shit. I would describe it like “it’s when i relentlessly tease you and get you close to cuming, but then i dont let you. Over and over again until you are begging me for it.”

She also reveals a big turn on which is having her neck kissed. This is very common. There are three erogenous zones on a girl: Her neck, her collarbone, or her ear. Kissing one of these is going to make her very horny and if you know which one ahead of time so much the better.

Back to logistics! In addition this is a good example of what to do if you live with your parents. If you sexualize the convo like he did then the girl will be on board with picking you up or meeting at her place.

Here’s just logistics. Them meeting. And lots of sex. Few interesting takeaways here:

1. You can hookup with girls taller than you (or at least some of the time) if you have her really invested and have established a strong sexual frame.
2. You can get laid even if your place is not an option if you do what he did
3. You can also get laid the same night on dating apps with a good profile and solid text game as you saw here.