How To Get Laid While Traveling (Ultimate Guide)
Wondering how do I get laid in this or that country? You’re in the right place. This no-BS guide breaks down exactly how to get laid in cities and countries around the world, based on my personal adventures and hard-earned experience. Skip the awkward trial and error—no scams, no time-wasters, just real strategies that actually work. If you’re looking to get laid while traveling and make the most of every night out, this guide’s got you covered.
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How To Get Laid While Traveling?
Before we get into specific destinations it is important to understand the basics. Contrary to popular belief, just by going to a place like Thailand or Colombia you’re not guaranteed to get laid. You still need a certain level of game and even more importantly a good strategy. Lets take a look at a few things you should do prior to your trip:
1) Set up a good tinder profile – Before traveling, make sure your tinder photos are on point. Get a pro photo shoot if necessary. This will pay off massive dividends. If your photos completely suck in America then you wont get matches anywhere else either. But, if you have decent photos then you will get 2 to 5x more matches just by traveling to a place like Colombia or Poland. Personally, when I travelled to both of these countries I was getting over 50 matches per day just on Tinder. Go here for more guidance on setting up a Tinder profile
2) Get good logistics – skip the hotels (a lot of them have weird policies about bringing back girls) and get a good Airbnb. Make sure its in a safe part of town and ideally has a front desk person for an extra layer of safety
3) Learn a bit about the local culture/language – The guides below will help you in this regard. But it also can be useful to connect with a people who live in your destination or have visited there. Learning just a few words in the local language can also be very useful. The girls will appreciate that you are at least trying and it can make your overall trip smoother
For a more detailed breakdown on this, go to my getting laid while traveling guide
What are the easiest countries in the world to get laid in?
We interviewed some of the top dating coaches to figure out what is the best country for American guys to meet girls & get laid. No country was off limits. Here are their picks:
1) Philippines – This universally the number one choice. People in the Philippines have a very strong fascination with western culture, which means that being American (or from any first world country) will cause a lot of girls to chase you. In addition, unlike most asian countries girls over there have a lot less shame around sex so you can get many to just come straight to your place
2) Indonesia – This was a very close second. A lot of the coaches said it is extremely easy to get laid here. As an additional bonus you have beautiful beaches, forests, and food which is why some many Americans wind up permanently relocating here
3) Colombia/Brazil – Both of these countries have some of the most beautiful women on the planet. If you like big tits and huge asses then this is heaven. Girls are also typically more receptive then back home. In America, I typically get 20-30 matches a day. In Colombia that number jumps up to 50-100. Safety is an issue over there though, so you need to follow certain precautions (more on that later)
To see the other countries that were chosen along with more details, go to my easiest countries to get laid in guide
How to meet girls and get laid in Colombia?
Colombian women are gorgeous. The photo above is from a girl I met on Tinder while visiting (for the full story click here). In general, Colombian ladies are fairly receptive to American men. However, that doesn’t mean they will just magically appear in your bed (unless you pay for it, which we DO NOT advice). In addition, they are very weary of sex tourists as they are very common. This means that you have to ensure you don’t fall into this category. Colombian girls will commonly ask you what you’re doing there. The safest response I have found is to say your trip is work related.
In addition, while it is definitely easier to get laid in Colombia then it is back home, you still need some game. This means that if you can’t maintain a convo with a girl in America, don’t expect something to change. I personally know a virgin who went to Colombia hoping to loose his virginity and completely failed. That being said, you don’t need to be a pro, just some basic game and proper strategy and you’ll do well.
One big tip is that latin women in particular like men who are masculine. That doesn’t mean you need to be have muscles, but you can’t be a wimp and afraid to make a move. If you can turn a Colombian girl on and lead, then you will be in for some of the best sex of your life. This is only the beginning though, click here to check out my full guide on getting laid in Colombia
How to meet girls and get laid in Mexico?
There is a lot of overlap between Colombian and Mexican girls. Both like masculine men who are not afraid to make a move. And both are very weary of sex tourists. Thus, most of the advice & strategies in the previous section apply to getting laid in Mexico as well. One key difference is that cities in Colombia don’t really have the level of tourisms that some cities in Mexico do, like Cancun. If you’re looking to meet and sleep with sexy Mexican girls, Cancun should be at the bottom of your list.
Don’t get me wrong, I have gotten laid plenty in Cancun, but there are much better options, like Guadalajara and Mexico City. The girls are more attractive and you will stand out more.. in a good way. The most popular dating app in Mexico is Tinder, followed up by Badoo (although, I’m personally not a huge fan of it). Mexican girls are typically fairly sexual and will even come straight to your place, if you set things up correctly. To learn more about this as well as other crucial tips, check out our getting laid in Mexico ultimate guide
How to meet girls and get laid in Poland?
Poland is definitely a mixed bag in my experience. On one hand, when I was there, my Tinder was blowing up—getting matches was incredibly easy, and I could regularly have new girls come straight over to my place. On the other hand, the nightlife scene was tougher. Polish girls can sometimes be surprisingly rude at bars and clubs, often cockblocking each other more aggressively than I’ve noticed anywhere else.
There’s also something my friends jokingly call “Polish LMR” (Last Minute Resistance). It’s when a girl seems completely into you but then suddenly starts making excuses or acting hesitant once things get closer to intimacy. This mostly comes from Poland’s conservative, slut-shaming culture. Many girls genuinely want to hook up but hold themselves back due to societal judgment. It’s not exclusive to Poland—you’ll encounter similar behavior, sometimes even more pronounced, in parts of Asia. Of course, not every Polish girl is like this; plenty are comfortable skipping the games and going straight for what they want.
Overall, if you appreciate attractive Eastern European women and have solid game, Poland is definitely worth your time. However, if you find it tough to escalate things even back home, you might find Poland frustrating since persistence often matters more there. Personally, I’d recommend focusing your efforts on Tinder rather than bars and clubs, as I found the return on effort much better. For more specifics, check out my detailed guide on how to get laid in Poland.
How To Get Laid In Las Vegas?
We’ve talked plenty about the dating scene in other countries, but what about Las Vegas? A lot of guys head to Vegas hoping for easy hookups but end up leaving disappointed. Don’t get me wrong—Vegas can be incredible for meeting girls… if you know what you’re doing and steer clear of common pitfalls. Here are some of the biggest mistakes guys make:
- Poor Logistics – It might seem appealing to book a cheaper hotel a mile or two from the Strip. However, in Vegas, logistics are everything. My advice? Stay on the Strip—and ideally right in the center of it. The convenience will pay off.
- Focusing on Just One Girl – This is never a great strategy, but it’s especially bad in Vegas. The dating scene here moves fast, and plans change quickly. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Instead, set up multiple dates for the same night. If a couple of girls flake, you’ll still have backup options.
- Playing It Too Slow – Vegas is essentially the capital of one-night stands. If you don’t make your move the night you meet a girl—or at the very latest, the next night—odds are you’ll never see her again. Hesitate, and someone else will close the deal.
For more insider tips and details, check out my complete guide on How to Get Laid in Las Vegas.
How do I stay safe while traveling?
Travel safety is extremely important. Nothing kills your mojo like being drugged and robbed. This especially applies for Latin America, where tourists get targeted every day. This shouldn’t scare you from going, but instead give you a better understanding of how to stay safe. Lets talk about some of the travel safety basics:
1) Pick a Busy, Safe Area – When you’re heading to Latin America or anywhere else really, remember that every city has safe and unsafe spots. Do a quick bit of research to make sure you’re choosing somewhere busy and secure for your Airbnb or hotel. Crowded areas tend to scare off troublemakers who don’t want to risk getting caught.
2) Go for a Place with a 24-Hour Front Desk – Always look for accommodations that have someone at the front desk 24/7—it’s a game changer. Say you have an awkward situation, like your guest turns out to be sketchy or suddenly demands money; a front desk ensures random people can’t just wander into your building, and you’ll have someone nearby to handle things. Plus, security cameras add another layer of protection by discouraging shady activities.
3) Skip Group Dates – If you’re in Colombia and theres a girl on Tinder who wants to bring “her friend” to your place then say no. A lot of times, this results in one girl robbing you, while you’re with the other one. If someone suggests bringing a friend or talks about a threesome, insist on meeting just one person first. If you get a good vibe from her, then you can always do the threesome thing later
4) Watch Your Drink – If you’re chilling at your place with someone new—especially if you met online—never leave your drink unattended. Take it with you even if you’re just stepping away briefly. Bottom line: if your drink leaves your sight, toss it immediately. This is primarily for Latin America, but still a good policy to have anywhere across the world
This is of course just a small part of it. To see my full list of important safety tips, go to my travel safety guide
Conclusion
Traveling and meeting girls in foreign countries is awesome. However, it is not a magic bullet. If you have zero success back home, you will probably struggle wherever you go. It is important to learn some basic skills and set up a high quality Tinder profile before you begin your travels.
There are many parts of the world that you could visit where you will love the local girls. Most popular destinations are: Latin America, Southeast Asia, and Eastern Europe. For help narrowing it down, explore my detailed guides (linked above). Overall, Travel can be the best time of your life, if you are smart and follow the advice in this guide.
