Best Ways To Get Laid While Traveling

In this article we we’re going to show you the best ways to get laid while traveling. We’ve written about the best places to get laid in the world, and talked about how much fun it is to sleep with hotties in other countries. As you know from our Love Reports, some of our favorite lays have been in places like Colombia and Poland.

And why not? Experiencing a new culture while also experiencing a new girl is the ultimate win-win.

But even when guys book travel to places like Bangkok, Warsaw, or Cartagena, there are common mistakes or misconceptions they make that trip them up. In some places, girls might be more DTF, but that doesn’t mean they’re magically going to jump in your bed.

Looking to pack your bags and get a big booty Latina, a feminine European girl, or a cutsie Asian chick in your bed on your next trip? Let’s dive into the “must know” tricks.

1. Do some research.

Don’t arrive to a city knowing nothing about it. This might sound obvious, but there are at least a few things you want to scout out ahead.

First of all, if you’re going to do cold approach at all, research popular nightclubs and heavily trafficked streets. There’s often a lot of nuance to this, especially with night game, in cities. For instance, a club that’s hot on a Friday might suck other days of the week. There might be one spot that’s particularly good on the “off days” around the weekend.

Second, you’re going to have dates. Unless you’re going to go for straight to house every time (which can be tough abroad), you want to figure out some cool bars or coffee shops you can meet girls at. And you want to make sure they’re easily walkable so that when it comes time to pull, you can.

2. Make sure you have good logistics.

Ok, this is very related to the above item, but it’s important! But if you pick a part of the city to stay in that’s less safe, or not central, you’re going to get a lot more objections from girls. Why give yourself that extra work?

Similarly, when picking a place to stay, look at the neighborhood. Make sure that there actually are some good date spots within reasonable walking distance. Go a step further than just looking at addresses on Google Maps. Look at pictures inside the venue, and look for ones that look like they have the right vibe for the kinds of dates you want to run (you might want a place with good drinks but isn’t too loud, and maybe it has seats that will allow you to sit next to her rather than across from her). Then, save them to your Google Maps so they’re readily available when you get there!

3. Update your profile and text game.

If you’ve followed our guide, your Tinder bio is probably a bit sexual. In some places, being too sexual before you meet a girl can scare her off, because certain cultures are very lowkey about being sexual.

This is especially true in places like Asia and sometimes Latin America, where girls are probably hornier than white girls, but they’re not as overtly DTF.

Similarly, in places like this, you’ll want to dial back how sexually you text girls. In Asia, you might want to suggest “cuddles” rather than something more explicit. On the other hand, in Scandinavia for instance, you can be as direct if not more as you would be in North America.

Understanding the cultural nuances of where you’re visiting and calibrating your approach is crucial. Speaking of culture…

4. Learn a bit about their culture and language.

You don’t need to be a fluent Spanish speaker to get laid in Colombia. But coming off as a dumb gringo (or foreigner in other countries) is a huge Demonstration of Lower Value (DLV).

Being a tourist is ok, but being a dumb stereotypical tourist will turn off 99% of girls. This gives you an added bonus in that it can be a subtle Demonstration of Higher Value when you mention it to a girl in texting or in person.

For instance, when a girl in Poland asks why I’m there, I might say “for the pierogi… and work i guess”. But obviously mentioning pierogi in Thailand would make no sense.

It’s about being able to calibrate and show that you actually know at least a little bit about their culture.

5. Skip the hotel and go for the Airbnb.

This is actually a pretty important one. In many girls’ minds:

Hotels = skeevy hookup with a tourist

Airbnb = your “apartment” that you’re staying at

It makes the pull easier, reduces the number of potential objections you might get, and also gives you more plausible deniability in her mind.

6. Figure out the most popular local texting app(s).

If you’re American or Canadian, you’re probably used to SMS (or even more likely, iMessage). This really isn’t a thing in much of the world. So if you get a girl’s number and send her a text, she’s not going to get it.

In LATAM, for instance, the texting app of choice is Whatsapp. In parts of Asia, it’s Line. China even has its own app called WeChat.

Follow These Tips to Get Laid in Any Country

Even in the so-called “easy” countries, it’s not enough to just get matches and push for dates. You need to do a little bit of planning and preparation to maximize your success.

Whether you’re spending a few days or a few months in a new place, these steps will make it much easier to get hot girls back to your place.

Enjoy!

– Indian “Travel Master” PE