How Girls Shit Test Guys Over Text (Case Study)

In this guide, we’re going to go through a love report from one of our mastermind members. This one is specifically interesting because the girl gives him a lot of attitude and tests him. He passes with flying colors and ends up getting the lay.

Before we do that, let’s revisit what a shit test is. A “shit test” refers to behavior or comments from a woman intended to challenge or test your confidence. They’re often subconscious, and done by more attractive women (because they want the highest quality men).

The idea is that by throwing out a provocative or dismissive remark, the woman can gauge how you react. If you handle it well, you “pass” the shit test, showing you are confident and not easily rattled. If you don’t, you “fail,” indicating insecurity (and telling her you might not be as high value as she initially thought).

Many guys have this automatic response when a girl tests them, asking “Why should I waste my time?”. I’m here to tell you: That’s a very egotistical mindset to have. Especially since when a girl gives you shit, it’s never ever personal. That’s just her archetype.

We have talked about dealing with brats many a few times and this girl doesn’t fall into that category, although close to it. Brats like to misbehave to be punished by you. They provoke you to be dominant and aggressive

This girl over here, tests men to make sure they are truly dominant and will not take her shit seriously. She wants to make sure you’re not going to get emotional or triggered just because you face a bit of resistance. She wants to know she can trust you. She wants you to brush things off as if nothing happened

Couple last points before we crack into the case study. This is how you DON’T handle girls shit testing you:

1. Getting confrontational: If you get confrontational, it will just be a battle of the minds and girls hate losing at this game. So, they will just double down and make it harder and harder for you
2. Ignore: It’s actually even worse than getting confrontational. When you ignore her tests, she will think she can punk you around and it will get worse with each test

Without any further ado: Let’s crack into this LR and case study.

Part 1: Calm before the Storm

Takeaways:

1. A fun opener and something all guys can use who are into fitness and when they match with fitness girls
2. She does it quite subtly with “But I will give you a run for your money” when they talk about competing against each other in squats.
3. That she would have a lot of competition. He handled that well with “Save it for the pillow fights” because he softens the effect of what competition would do to him
4. They then talk about puppies and she then starts with the testing when he says “Hope your puppy doesn’t get jealous you’ve found someone new to cuddle with” (referring to himself
5. She says “But I haven’t ;)”. It’s important to realize she is just being playful here and you would need to be playful back

Part 2: It begins

Takeaways:

• She starts her shit testing storm with “My place is above yours…”. He handles it perfectly well by sexualizing there. Implying that he’s going to choke her, pin her against the wall and lift her up
• She goes even further with recommending he should pack his lunch for the day (implying that she would be tough to tame). A lot of guys would lose it here and probably unmatch because they are getting triggered by her. Wrong move! It’s quite easy to handle such girls
• He does it well playing it off and calling her out on her empty threats. She again doubles down with “In your dreams” when he shows dominance and the confidence that she is actually looking for.
• And then she starts to comply when he says “I’ve seen this act before. It’s all talk”. This demonstrates a lot of things. It shows that he isn’t worried about handling her. It also shows her that he has experience handling such girls and they are typically all talk.
• Having sexual authority and experience over girls is a great way to get her to trust you and get her to stop testing you because she knows it’s not going to work with you and she can just let go of the testing and submit to you.

Part 3: The submission and logistics

Takeaways:

1) “Show me” after he says “Enough” to how many times he has seen this behavior before. It should be quite obvious to you now that women love an experienced man. We see the instance of that here once again

2) Once she understands that you’re experienced with other women like her, she feels a lot more attracted to you.

3) He asked if she was feeling spontaneous and when she said she had to go to sleep early, he playfully teases her again with “See? You’re all talk”

4) You also notice that she doesn’t have the attitude after he handled her well. “Shh. I need my beauty sleep

5) The conversation moves over to text and as you see they end up meeting and have a great night of taming her

Conclusion:

The hottest girls can be the biggest brats. Why? Because they only want to be with the highest quality of men. That would include guys who are quite dominant and will not take her shit seriously. They will just put her in her place whenever she misbehaves. And she will purposely do that to see if you’re going to slip. So, it’s quite imperative to monitor her behavior in person.

If you’re dating someone who has the tendency to shit test you, you will always have to catch that, monitor that behavior and punish her appropriately (BDSM, paddles, handcuffs, teasing etc).

I’m sure you found that valuable ;),

Indian “Put her in her place” PE.