Hot Flaky Submissive 18 Year old – Tinder LR
This one was NOT easy. It took a bit of messaging, two Face-time sessions, two phone calls, and one emotional breakdown (on her part), before I was able to even meet up with her. However, in the end it was worth it. She was young, hot, and kinky. Here is the story with the Screenshots from Start to Finish
She messaged me first, which is a good sign. Furthermore, she indicated that she wasn’t doing much. Right away, I had a feeling that she was looking for either hook up or at the very least some kind of distraction. I threw a feeler text out there “looking nice and jacked for our date” and she responds positively
She doesn’t tell me she is busy, which I take as another good sign. I throw a more direct feeler text at her, asking if she is “feeling adventurous”. She deflects and I deflect right back, making sure to invest less then her. We banter a bit back and forth and she asks me again what I have in mind. This is like a poker game, where neither party wants to reveal their hand first. However, being the guy, I know I have to go first. I keep my proposal as chill and expectation free as possible… “drinks on my patio”
She keeps pressing me for more details. At this point, there are essentially three directions I can go in. I can be super dominant and direct, saying “I fuck you every which way”. I can be super chill and nonchalant, saying “we see what happens, no expectations on my end”. I don’t want her to feel pressured and flake, but I don’t want her to think i’m afraid to state my intentions (some girls will interpret that as you being pussy and become uninterested), and so I take the third approach and give her a semi-joking/sexual answer. She gives me a hesitant response. I take it as a shit test and plow through with some more humor. She gives in and i start screening for logistics
I tell her to meet me at my place, painting the scene to make it seem as chill as possible. Here she starts barraging me with various shit tests and objections. I plow through, being non-needy, but persistent and assertive. I also throw in a little joke about Gilmore Girls for good measure.
She gives me a half- hearted yes and I decide to build investment and more comfort, by giving her my number and telling her to text me. At this point, I have answered her objections and she has shown clear interest in the idea of meeting up. This means that If she doesn’t text me then I know she is likely a flake and not worth wasting any more time on. Fortunately, she texts me right away
A lot happens during the course of this screenshot. I ask her for her eta and she responds with “Idk if i’m coming”, before I can even think of a response she hits me up on Face-time (video chat for Iphones). She is even cuter then her pictures and I want to fuck her. I spend the first 10-15 minutes cracking jokes, teasing her, and building comfort. I find out that she is sexually submissive and has been getting into BDSM. Perfect! I propose that she comes over and has a drink with me. She is extremely indecisive and starts giving me every objection known to man.
“But its a far drive”
“I don’t have sex with strangers”
“what if we dont get along”
“Im nervous”
“i never do this”
The list goes on. I plow through every single one of them, sprinkling in more humor and rapport all through out. It gets to the point, where she starts repeating the same objections I had already answered. I call her out on this…numerous times. Finally, we agree that I am going to come pick her up and we are going to go back to my place (she lives less then 15 minutes away). We had been Face-timing for over an hour at this point and yet I can still sense the hesitation in her voice. Kids these days are so indecisive. I get her address, tell her I’m going to hop in the shower real quick and come pick her up.
As I’m getting out of the shower, she messages me “Can we do it tomorrow..”. I get annoyed right away, I know its a bullshit excuse and having spent an hour trying to make plans, adds insult to injury. At this point, you could definitely say I was attached to the outcome. I exaggerate and tell her “Im already on the way”. She writes back “ugh no” and I call her to see if there are any objections left for me to handle.
On the phone, I ask her whats wrong and she goes off on a rant about how she is tired and how we should just hang out tomorrow. I am honest and tell her that “if she didn’t want to hang out she should have told me an have told me an hour ago and that its not cool to waste peoples time like that” I didn’t yell, but I was extremely annoyed and I guess it showed in my voice. At this point, I hear the phone drop and no one is speaking. Then I get her barrage of texts. Apparently, I had triggered some kind of childhood PTSD
She gives me a bullshit excuse and I assume it is never going to happen. I completely, block her out from my mind and decide to move on. There’s always more girls out there. However, surprisingly the next morning she texts me. Even though, I knew that I handled the situation different then 99% of most guys (didn’t blow up her phone with angry texts or start bending over backwards), I still was quite surprised when she texted me.
I am pretty short with her over the next few texts, eventually though she calls me and I pick up. On the phone, I am nonchalant and chill. She quickly hints at the fact that she is horny and wants to hang out. However, I have plans that evening already (another date) and tell her, I could hit her up later when I’m free. She does not like that answer, but I am not about to change my schedule around for someone who flaked on me the night before. Of-course, this makes her chase even more
My other date is very short. The girl looked good in her pictures, but is chubby in real life. I politely tell her, I’m not interested and bounce. I send my 18 year old Tinderella a pretty nonchalant text “whats up” and she hits me up on Face-time a few minutes later. We talk for about 20 minutes. She brings up a few of the same objections from last night, but I remind her that she was the one that wanted to hang out and that she is lucky I’m giving her another chance. I do this in a playful, but firm tone. She gives in and agrees to drive over.
She is at least half an hour late, but i expected worse. She gets lost in my courtyard and I wind up having to go find her. Eventually, I stumble upon her. She has a sexy body, cute face, and is extremely awkward. I lead her inside my apartment and we sit on my couch. I spend the next 15-20 minutes building comfort….Jokes, playful teasing, more rapport and eventually she starts to loosen up.
We start talking about past experiences. She tells me about the two other guys she went out with from tinder. Both played the nice guy card, taking her out to dinner and all, but getting absolutely nowhere in the end. Well, she doesn’t have to worry about that with me. The moment seems right and I grab her hair giving it a good yank and go in for the kiss. Surprisingly, she pushes me away. Apparently, rapid movements also trigger her childhood PTSD
OK time, to shift gears, I suggest we play a game…Two truths and a lie. I am pretty good at reading people and hit a lucky streak, guessing right every time. She is impressed and I start physically escalating again. Rubbing her leg, having her sit on my lap, etc. She is fairly responsive. I change the topic to BDSM, which I know from our FaceTime sessions that she is into. I can tell she is getting turned on. However, it becomes a game of cat and mouse. One minute, ill rub her leg, the next minute she’ll take my hand off. One minute she sits on my lap, the next minute she moves away
This goes on for another twenty minutes or so. I can tell she is completely comfortable and is just trying to test me. No problem. I pick her up (making sure not to move too fast) and carry her onto the second couch, laying her down, climbing on top and kissing her. This time she reciprocates. Most girls have a spot that really gets them turned on and I always try to look for it. Her’s is the ear and I find it pretty fast. As, I kiss it she starts moaning.
At this point, I know its on. I take her hand and we go upstairs to my bed. She warns me that, apparently lately every time she has an orgasm, she cries right afterwards. Interesting. I tell her its no big deal and start kissing her ear some more. Eventually she begs me to fuck her. I throw a condom on and go to town. She moans loudly and wraps her legs around me. It is really hot. I take my Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrator and stimulate her clit, while fucking her and she cums pretty fast. Sure enough, right afterwards she starts crying. I had never seen this before and it is weird as fuck. Fortunately, it ends after a few minutes and we fuck some more
Next day, she sends me a barrage of texts wanting to hang out again. Funny enough, you can see how much the tables have turned and how she is chasing me. This is why I always recommend that if you like a girl, you should try to fuck her as fast as possible. Most girls, will drop their shield after sex and suddenly become a lot sweeter (provided you don’t act like a bitch at some point)
I did wind up seeing her again a few nights later. However, the second night I started seeing a lot of behaviors that were a turn-off (rudeness, entitlement, etc). Needless to say, there was no third night.
