Getting Laid In Mexico Ultimate Guide
In this guide, I’m going to show you exactly how to meet girls in Mexico and get laid. Overall, Mexico has amazing girls. They can be sexy, feminine, and DTF… If you know what you’re doing. However, if you have no idea what you’re doing, you can easily get ripped off, or even robbed, so make sure you read this whole guide.
Where to go in Mexico?
Mexico is huge! And some of the cities can be very different from each other, both in terms of quality of girls and safety. You generally want to avoid where all the other Americans go, like Cancun for Spring Break (trust me, it’s a massive sausage fest).
If you are interested in gorgeous beaches and amazing jungles, then skip Cancun and instead go two hours south to Tulum. Not only will you see some amazing pyramids, but you’ll also avoid the downsides of Cancun. In areas where there are massive amounts of tourists, the local girls built up a huge defense shield. In Tulum, you will meet girls from all across the world, especially Europe. However, if you’re like me, and want to meet Latinas, then there’s a much better place.
Guadalajara has by far the hottest girls in Mexico. They are very light-skinned and it’s common to see blue/green eyes, but, on a girl who has an amazing ass. I personally spent a week in Guadalajara and can vouch for this. The girls there are on par with Medellin, Colombia, or Brazil.
In addition, there’s a lot less Americans there, so you will stand out more (in a good way) and the girls won’t have the “sex tourist shield,” like some of them do in Cancun. However, most of the girls will barely speak English, so unless you know Spanish, you’re gonna be best off using dating apps. Any girl who matches with you will probably alread be cool with the language barrier. I remember when I was there, I slept with 5 girls from Tinder (and this is when my profile used to be meh).
In terms of safety, Guadalajara isn’t the worst or the best. If you follow the typical “white guy in third world country protocol” you’ll probably be ok. There’s a lot of guides on this already, so I won’t write too much here
Pro tip: avoid renting a car at all costs. I did that and they tried to charge me $1000 worth of fake damages when I returned it. Plus, driving in Mexico is living hell, so you’re much better off taking an Uber.
Mexico City: If you’re looking for the best ROI, then this might be the best option. Mexico City is a lot more dense so your Tinder will be exploding with different girls. In addition, the average girl will speak better English. On average, the girls aren’t quite as hot as in Guadalajara, but they’re still sexy.
I have personally never visited, but multiple other dating coaches and friends have told me Mexico City is one of the easiest places to get laid in Latin America.
Strategies You Should Follow To Get Laid
Here are the 10 golden rules:
1. Utilize both Tinder and Bumble (Hinge won’t get you much). However, tinder will be your main source of leads. Badoo, is the most popular app in mexico, but in my opinion it sucks and isn’t necessary with the other two.
2. Plan In Advance: Get Tinder Gold or Platinum and set your profile to whatever city you’re going to a few days in advance. This will give you time to plan some dates for when you arrive. If a girl asks why your location is so far, just tell her “you’re arriving in XX days.”
3. Avoid appearing like a sex tourist at all costs! This is something that is a turnoff for every single girl in Latin America. This means, when a girl asks you why you’re visiting Mexico, you’re probably going to need to tell her a white lie. I personally say I’m visiting for work, as that simultaneously conveys high value while overcoming the sex tourist concern.
4. If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. There will be plenty of hot girls that will legitimately be willing to come straight to your place for sex, but if she mentions brining a friend for a 3some, then it’s probably a set up. In general avoid any kind of group date and if a girl asks to bring a friend, use this line “I want to spend time with you, not you and your friend.”
5. Make sure your profile photos are on point. The difference between having a decent profile and a good profile could mean 5x more results. For more info on profile photos, check out this guide.
6. Generally, avoid leading with sex. I find that in Latin American countries, it’s better to be a little more subtle. If you ask any girl in Mexico what she’s looking for, most of them will say “friends”. Stick to flirting and innuendos, unless the girl pushes it in a more sexual direction. The best way to find out how DTF a girl is in Mexico, is by just inviting her straight to your place for a drink. If she says yes, then that tells you all you need to know.
7. Always invite the girl straight to your place as Plan A. If you’re staying in a place with security and a front desk (which you definitely should be ) then this is not only the most efficient, but also the safest for you. Some girls will reject this invitation, because of safety reasons, if that’s the case, then just offer to meet her at a bar within walking distance. Pro tip: don’t let the girl pick the bar as sometimes that can be part of the scam.
8. Put a few hooks in your bio to screen out girls who are not looking for the same thing as you. The fact that you’re an American in her country should already be a form of screening, but I like to add words like “Dominant” to my bio to screen out further. For more on Tinder bios check out this guide
9. Use Google Translate to significantly increase your options. There will definitely be some girls who speak English, but why limit yourself to only those. Some of the hottest girls will probably suck at English, don’t let that intimidate you. I have had many hookups with girls who didn’t speak a word of English. At the end of the day, what you say doesn’t matter as much as your vibe, tonality, and confidence.
10. Avoid escorts at all costs. First of all, it should be completely unnecessary if you follow the advice in this guide. There’s countless hot Mexican girls who will sleep with you, but also engaging with prostitutes significantly increases the safety risk. Same thing applies for hard drugs.
Conclusion.
Mexico can be an amazing place for getting laid and there are some awesome girls there. One thing I haven’t even mentioned yet is that you will automatically benefit from sexual market inflation. This means, if you’re a 6 in New York, you might be a 7.5-8 in certain parts of Mexico (that are not tourist traps). In addition, it is common to get 10x more matches in places like Mexico City. The dating market will be much more favorable towards you.
Important note: if you are a total incel in America, or have horrible photos, you will probably not get results in Mexico either. 10x of 0, is still 0. So follow my tips in other articles and you’ll have a great time
Follow common third world safety tips and for the love of all things holy, avoid drinking the Mexican water (always get bottles). If you have a semi-decent profile and have a bit of game, you can absolutely crush it in Mexico! In order to increase your odds even more, get my free tinder guide now.
