Difficult to Meet Bratty Blonde – Members Only LR

Special Members-only Lay Report for you guys. I think this one is going to be really valuable because its chalk full of lessons

1) How to Win a Frame Battle
2) How to Sext
3) How to handle No sex on the first date nonsense
4) What to do when she is being difficult to schedule
5) What to do when she reschedules on you a BUNCH of times

There are 30 screenshots. The whole thing might have been much shorter if I didn’t actually flake on her one night when I wound up getting another girl over or if I was available to hang out the next day when she was hooked with the sexting. This LR is about two weeks in the making

In the last screenshot, she tries to switch up locations on me but I get her on the phone and its super easy 2-3 min conversation and she agrees to come over

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She arrives and I can tell she is in a bad emotional state after work, so I give her a big hug and make a few jokes. We get inside and sit on my couch. I let her have a little wine and de-stress for a bit. After 10 min, the convo starts drifting in a slightly sexual direction and I touch her neck. Her eyes deepen and she tells me it’s not fair because “that’s her spot”

I’ve written about this in the past, most women have a spot on their body that gets them really horny (usually neck, ears, or collarbone). I pull her in and start kissing her neck, she starts moaning but stops me after a minute.

I take a minute and pull back a bit, before starting to escalate again. This time I get a little further before she stops me. For the next 10 minutes its classic two steps forward one step back. She tells me numerous times that she’s not going to fuck me and that I shouldn’t be doing that. By this point, i can tell she is very submissive and also comfortable with me so I pin her arms down and tell her that there’s nothing she can really do to stop me (again very calibrated)

She gets super horny and I keep getting further. I finally get her shirt off and suck on her tits. This time when she stops me I just lay on her and tell her we are cuddling. I can tell she is horny and I let her kiss my neck a few times before starting to escalate again. This time after a few seconds of titty sucking I pull her up and bend her over and start slapping her ass. She loves it and starts getting even hornier

I pull her pants down and start fingering her. She gets even hornier. I spread her legs and start going down on her. She moans in delight. However, with this chick I don’t want to risk her orgasming and want to “get my dick in” when she is at her most horniest. I go to slide my dick in and she stops me. I can tell this time its a hard no so I pull back

I ask her whats up. She says that she is allergic to latex condoms and requires a special type which she doesn’t have on her. She had previously mentioned she was on the pill so I decide to say Yolo and tell her we can fuck without a condom since I am clean and am sure she is clean

She says no, that she is not going to fuck me on the first date. I can tell this is a hard no and that pure physical escalation will only make her more defensive and get me nowhere so I try the logical route. I ask her why. She tells me its her preference. I ask why again (I call this following the trail of whys). She says she just doesn’t like to do that. I ask if she feels like it’ll make her feel like a slut. After a bit, I figure out the source of her concern

She had a lot of experiences with guys fucking her and not calling her again and she made a pledge to herself to minimize that (very common). I explain to her that if she doesn’t want to have sex I will totally respect her choice, but that will actually decrease her chance of seeing me again. I explain how I don’t judge girls based on how fast they sleep with me and give her that whole shpiel

I can tell I have significantly mitigated her concern. I go to escalate again, eating her out. This time though, instead of trying to stick my dick in I grab her and lead her to the bedroom pushing her on the bed. There is no more LMR. I slide my dick in, we fuck, and I cum inside of her (lately big fetish of mine)

Afterwards, I pretty much crashed (been super tired lately) when I am tired and around people I get very loopy and kept doing a lot of different accents. Eventually she got annoyed and bounced. Fun night.