Am I Too Ugly For Online Dating?
You probably already know that the majority of men on dating apps are struggling. Some are literally getting zero matches. Unfortunately, they don’t have this type of advice to guide them, so they start thinking…
“maybe i’m just not attractive enough”
In this article, we’re gonna look at an example of this and break down the real issue. So that this doesn’t happen to you.
This was a popular post i saw on Reddit, the implication is that this guy is getting little to no matches because he is “just ugly”. And not realizing that the real issue is his shitty profile. Lets analyze his profile photo by photo and see how he can improve.
Here’s a clearer look at his profile.
Main photo is a selfie of him laying down with a hoodie and a hat because we all know thats how people really sleep. That photo alone is causing the vast majority of women to swipe left.
A good first photo should be you out and about doing something where you’re face is clearly visible aloong with your upper torso. It should feel like you live a cool life and dont sit around jerking of to porn in your room.
Second photo This pic is definitely better than his first one and if all he did was just make that his main his results would at least double. The only criticism i have of this photo is that its just him sitting around and his eyes aren’t visible because of the sunglasses.
Third photo This photo is just as bad as the first one. First off he’s not physically at a place where he can pull of a shirtless photo. He’s got too much fat and not enough muscle. Don’t get me wrong shirtless pics can be great…. If you have the body for it.
Another issue is his facial hair. He has a thicker mustache than his beard. Instead you want the opposite. As we sort of see in his sixth photo. He needs to trim that mustache, get his beard lined up, and get a fresh haircut for these photos.
Fourth photo This photo is actually okay to have halfway through your profile. Makes him seem like he’s a normal person with a life rather than the image he portrays in his main photo.
Fifth photo This one is pretty good as well, its an activity photo and he looks a lot better in it than some of the previous ones. My only criticism is that its indoors and he’s looking directly at the camera which makes it seem a bit more posed.
Sixth photo This pic is so so. Its outdoors and he looks a lot better in it than the first or the third but his body language/ makes him seem a bit feminine. This could probably be fixed with faceapp. He might be able to fix that with faceapp. Also he needs to crop most of the space above his head.
Last photo damn, he’s back in bed. This should go without saying but avoid photos of you just laying in bed. He also doesn’t look particularly good in this pic so he should just delete it. 
The biggest issue is his photos, but the bio doesn’t do him any favors either. Having reality shows as the very first thing makes him seem very basic. Also saying that you’re only looking for casual is gonna screen out the majority of girls even some of the DTF ones.
This is a very poor way of screening. A much better strategy is what i teach in the course. Which is using words like “dominant” or “great cuddler” or even “BDSM”
Lastly, his bio does not DHV him in anyway. In fact i would argue that some parts of it do the opposite. Theres nothing in here that is going to hook a girls attention or make her intrigued.
I wanted to include this so you can see how bad most dating advice is. This wasn’t cherry picked, it was literally the top comment (over 600 people upvoted it). In reality this suggestion might make a bit of a difference but not enough to get him even close to the results he wants.
The reality of the matter is that this guy is average looking, but due to not knowing what to do, combined with bad advice he is likely to blame his looks and give up.
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