Easiest US Cities To Get Laid In (According To Data)
What are the best cities in the US for meeting girls?
In this post, I’m going to reveal the results of a tinder experiment I did to find out what are truly the best cities in the U.S for meeting girls and getting laid. In addition, I will dispel a few common misconceptions about this topic. The answers might be very different then you expect
When most people think of the best cities for meeting women, their mind jumps to Las Vegas, LA, Miami, etc. You know the flashy touristy cities where people go to party. (we will refer to these as “1st Tier Cities”)
However, they couldn’t be more wrong. It is actually the 2nd tier cities, like Pittsburgh or Cincinnati that are the easiest to get laid in. The cities that people don’t normally think “I need to go there”.
Why are 2nd tier cities better for meeting girls?
I think there are two big reasons. The first has to do with competition. Ask yourself: where are highly successful guys more likely to move to? Miami or Cincinnati? The answer is obvious, successful guys are much more likely to move to a 1st tier city. Leaving 2nd tier cities with a low ratio of successful men
You may wonder, well doesn’t the same effect apply to women. But the answer is, not as much. Women are less likely to leave their friends and family in the city they grew up in compared to men.
This means that when you’re in a place like Miami you’re competing with successful guys from all across the country for the same girls. On the other hand, in Cincinnati you’re competing primarily against locals who are also on average not nearly as successful. This results in more matches, more dates, and less flakes.
The second reason has more to do with entertainment options. In a place like Miami there’s a million things to do. When you match with a hot girl and invite her to get a drink with you, you’re competing against the other guy who invited her on a boat, or the third guy who has backstage tickets to see Skrillex.
However, in Cincinnati when you invite a hot girl on a date, her other option is most likely just watching Netflix with her girlfriends. Thus, it is much easier to get her out (for more info on how to text her to get laid, see this guide)
What is the evidence?
A while back, I decided to test my theory by trying tinder in a bunch of cities across the country. Six cities were picked. The 1st tier ones were: NYC, Miami, and Los Angeles. The 2nd tier ones were: Albuquerque, Denver, and Pittburg
In terms of matches, there was no major difference between both groups. For 1st tier cities I averaged about 45 likes per day. For 2nd tier cities it was around 65. It’s something, but it’s not a lot.
However, when we tried setting up dates with the girls we matched with, massive differences began to emerge. In Miami I set up one date out of the 45 likes. In LA, it was the same. And in NYC it was two dates. Now granted this was with minimal effort and if i put more energy into it, we could have had a few more dates.
That being said, with the same amount of effort, I set up 6 dates in Denver (out of the around 65 likes), 8 In Pittsburgh, and 10 In Albuquerque. That right there is a massive difference. Here is an example of two of the girls from a 2nd tier city (Denver and Albuquerque respectively). That’s a lot of interest, right off the opener
For more details see, my Youtube video
Conclusion
The best cities for getting laid in America are not the flashiest ones. It’s the ones that have over a million people, but are not on peoples’ bucket lists. That being said, don’t think that if you are in a 1st tier city you have no chance.
I personally have lived in Miami for 7 years and have slept with hundreds of girls from here during that time period. It just requires a bit more work for the reasons previously mentioned
However, no matter what city you’re in, you are going to need a good profile, solid text game, and the ability to run a successful date. There are plenty of guys in 2nd tier cities who are also struggling.
Fortunately, our highly rated course, (Ultimate Dating Blueprint 2.0) will show you the proven strategies you need to skyrocket your dating results, no matter what city you’re in.
