How To Text A Girl: Sexualizing & Overcoming Objections
In this article you’re going to learn how to text a girl, sexualize the conversation, and overcome all her objections to get the date. We will be breaking down a real life tinder conversation that led to the guy getting laid.
In case you were wondering, this is what she looks like. Now with that out of the way, let’s get to the text game.
His opener definitely catches the girls attention. This kind of message will have a high response rate, but you need to know how to follow it up when she inevitably asks what you’re curious about. He references her bio and also starts sexualizing the convo. Now the one mistake he made here is trying to get her number on the third message. Instead i would have said something like “don’t worry i will help you with all the exploring your heart desires”
He makes another mistake by pushing for her number here. You never want to escalate on a shit test. He would have been much better of saying “highly doubtful my charm is quite irresistible” Her next message is a bit cryptic. She mentioned being toxic but what she is describing is boundaries and consent during sex, which makes me think that she has had guys who were too pushy in the past. Even the most DTF girls hate being pressured into sex.
Overall, he is calmly addressing her concerns and in addition throws in a joke about how he can be “intoxicating” . That’s good stuff. Next he tries to go for the same night lay, but a better call would have been just soft closing by saying something like “almost as good as our date is gonna be”
This is the third time he asks for her phone number with no luck. There are some girls who are serious about meeting but won’t give their number out until after the date and she seems like one of them (here’s another example).
His take away after she doesn’t respond to the phone number request is solid. In these situations where a girl leaves you on read or is just being non compliant it’s important to not keep blindly pushing but instead use an appropriate take away. And then the rest of this screenshot is just logistics.
So finally he is able to set up plans. However she adds “i think” to her message so he rightfully pushes a little bit to try and figure out what it’s all about. Big surprise, it’s her period. The majority of girls are only reluctant to have sex during their time of the month because they are worried about being judged by the guy. If you can clearly communicate that you don’t give a shit, then the majority of girls will not either. He handles the period concern quite well and puts her at ease.
His second message here of “love the enthusiasm” was probably a bit too harsh. Instead I would have said “how good 😉 “ He senses that he seems a bit hesitant and just cuts straight to the chase. I would have arrived there differently, but the idea is good. You want to address all possible concerns beforehand, because otherwise she will probably flake.
He addresses her concern pretty well. I couldn’t have done it any better myself. I probably would not push for the number as much since it’s clear she is worried about giving it. There’s no logical reason for this since you can always block someone, but telling her that probably won’t change anything.
What i might have said after she sent a winky face, “ sure i take it you’ve had some bad experiences in the past”
As I predicted she is not parting with those digits. He does the right thing by dropping it and just sticking to confirming the date. If a girl is not giving her number I would be extra diligent when it comes to confirming the date.
Here we have a frame battle. She is trying to get him to come near her place. He does the right thing by refusing. Always avoid meeting the girl near her place or meeting her halfway. He asserts that if she wants to meet him, she is gonna have to put in more work. At one point, she stops responding so he teases her for the laziness and she finally gives in. The rest of the screenshot is just logistics.
Some more logistics and the date is set in motion. Also a good text he slips in is about rewarding her with a massage. This once again reaffirms the sexual frame.
And finally they meet and he closes the deal. This is the power of understanding text game, being able to overcome objections and knowing how to tactfully persist. Btw, this is one of the guys in our mastermind group and if you want to start getting similar results then email us about joining
